Our brains treat difference as threat, a leftover from our reptilian past. Modern life pushes us toward coexistence, but that primitive fear of loss makes division feel safer. Deep self-acceptance is what it takes to see diversity as opportunity instead.
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Right now, the world seems in a very divisive place where it feels like every government, every— whether it's the US or Australia or India or London, there are rallies happening around the world where people are trying to create these almost these metaphorical walls and sometimes even physical walls. Some presidents want to build that. What's your thought about that?
It's the good old concept of yin-yang. Everything comes with its opposite. On one hand, we know, we really know, the research shows, our anecdotal data shows, The way we live in, especially in big cities in the world, really proves that we are in an era to co-create, to live together with our differences. But at the same time, for our reptilian brain, and also for all the fears that we are kind of developing within us, it doesn't help. Any kind of difference is a threat. It's very rare to see a difference as an opportunity. So you gotta really feel so comfortable with your own skin to see differences as an opportunity. So the very first reaction is threat. Yeah. Because everyone has something to lose, you know?