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6 Jul 2026 · 1 min

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Iri Cardoz, a TEDx speaker and Amazon leadership coach, argues that fear, not hate, is love's opposite. Childhood programming freezes us in place, creating a void where we fear being too much or not enough. Love must be relearned by trusting yourself.

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What is the opposite of love? And it is not hate.
I think that we operate from a state of fear. I think the opposite of love is fear.
You show up, you perform, you succeed, but something in your closest relationships still feels off. There's still a void that you live with every single day because there's a part of you, in you, that's terrified of who you can be. This is Iri Cardoz. She's a TEDx speaker, an Amazon leadership coach, and a bestselling author. And today she's going to help us reconnect to our work, to our homes and to our own selves. Because most of us learned love the wrong way in our childhood, and it's a programming that we're carrying forward to our adult lives.
We all have this frozen version of us that's kind of stuck in time.
We're still afraid of being too much, of being enough, of being large, because we are stuck with that previous version of ourselves.
Trust in love and let it lead.
What if love isn't something that you find, but it's something that you relearn? By being with yourself. Let's dive into this conversation and learn to love.