God Does Not Call The Qualified- Val Nichols Coaching- June 2018

Hi guys, how is everybody doing out there in the High Vibe Tribe lands? I am Valerie Nichols and I am a women success coach, and what I do is I help women who know that there is more in life get what— very, very clear about what they want and what their spiritual gifts and talents are so that they can raise to the next level And have it all. Because I really truly believe that if you are a woman and you are watching this, then you can have the life of your dreams. All it takes is a little bit of clarity, a little bit of conviction, and a little bit of commitment, and you will get there. And I'm not saying it's going to be simple, it's going to be easy. This is hard work. To be able to be willing to do the work that it takes to get there, you got to put some effort into it. So I really want to talk to you guys today about how the post that I posted earlier today that God does not call the equipped; He equips those. He calls. So if you are someone who is feeling like God is calling you to something so much bigger than yourself, and you feel like you are not the one, that you wish God would call someone else, or you're thinking, God, why me? I'm not the most equipped. I'm not the smartest. I'm not the most intelligent. I'm not the I'm not the most outgoing. Then all you got to do is dive a little bit deeper, because I know it is true that God does not call the equipped; he equips those he calls. Back in 2014, when I started my journey as a life coach, I had unknowingly been doing it for many, many years of my life. I have always been a manifesting queen. I've always been able to really just just call into life what it is that I want. You know, even as a little kid, I was able to say very specifically what it was that I wanted or needed, and it would come into my life, and it would just show up in a way that was just astounding. You know, my mom has always said that. She's like, even when you were a child, you always had that gift. Of just, I would pray or I would ask for something and I would almost instantly receive to the specific amount that I asked for or the specific thing that I wanted. And, you know, it's taken work. I might have a little bit of a natural talent, but it takes a lot of work in being very aware of what my thoughts are, the words that I'm speaking, and the actions that I'm taking in my life. So to get back to God calls the— he equips those he calls, I want to speak to you guys about something that has happened in my life. So as I said, back in 2014 when my journey started as a certified life coach, I was not clear on my message. I was not clear on what it was I was being called to do. And so what I ended up doing is I was just really— hi Angelina— so I was just really trying to help everybody in my coaching career. I was helping male business owners, I was helping Reiki healers, I was helping just everybody, you know, I was just trying to be everything to everyone because I was not clear with my message and I was not clear about what God was calling me to do. So I ended up feeling burnt out. I ended up feeling just super overwhelmed. I felt very scattered, and it didn't really go as well as I thought. The great thing is I've never had a problem getting a good job, so I ended up going back to management, corporate management, which is what I knew, and I stuck with that for a couple of years. And You know, I kept coaching a couple of women here and there. I mentor women all the time. But what happened is earlier this year, God kept laying it on my heart. He kept giving me that little nudge. If any of you know what I'm talking about, then, then go ahead and let me know with a heart or whatever it is. But God kept giving me this nudge where I just knew. That he was calling me to something, and I kept making excuses. I kept saying, no, it must just be my thoughts. No, it must just be a wish I have, because I was, I was scared. Honestly, my first reaction was to be scared. And of course, you know, being a coach, I know how to get through that. So I started working on myself and doing some things. But, you know, every time this came up, I, I just felt like this, this is it. God is calling me to something huge. And I was absolutely terrified. So what ended up happening is in February of this year, God just really got a hold of me and gave me a new vision for what I was doing, and he gave me new clarity and new conviction for what it was I was doing. And I sat down and I did my mind mapping project, which is the same thing that I do with the women that I coach now today. And what I did is I re- Branded what I was doing, and that is where the High Vibe Tribe that you're watching in today— that is where the High Vibe Tribe came from, out of me sitting down and being still and knowing in my heart of hearts that the woman I want to work with, my ideal woman that I want to work with, is a woman who is Ready for big changes in her life. She has— she may have a clear vision, she may not have a clear vision. She just may know that she really likes to speak in public, or maybe she knows that she does never want to speak in public, and she knows that God is calling her to something huge, something so much bigger than herself. She just does not, not know exactly what. Or she does not know how to get there. And I really truly believe in a scripture, and I've used it in my life, where it says to seek wise counsel. And that's exactly what I did. I sought wise counsel. I work with a coach, and I also work with a mentor, and I'm in a women's coaching group where, um, I run a lot of these things by them. You know, I run a lot of these things by them. I, I get wise counsel. And so what I did is I really got clear in what it was my vision was for this group. And as you ladies know, the High Vibe Tribe is for women who are looking for connection with other women because we are amazing singularly. This is a group of amazing, strong, and powerful women, but together, ladies, we are unstoppable. And that is what the High Vibe Tribe is all about. So that happened, and as you see, this community of women has just evolved into an amazing community of women who, who just fill my heart every day. And then after that, in March of this year, I had another prompting where God was equipping me, and I launched my Retox program. Which is a 6-week program for women who are suffering from narcissistic, abusive, and toxic relationships, and they're ready to break free of the chains of those relationships. And they learn how to get clear with what it is that they want. They learn how to break that cycle that keeps happening. You know that one I'm talking about where you keep picking The same man, they just have a different storybook cover. Same guy, different guy, you know, same story every time. So these women have been able to break free of those toxic patterns and those and get into really amazing, awesome, and loving relationships with themselves, with others, and with men. You know, getting into relationships that they've always wanted and they know that they deserve. So here's the thing. I was— I mean, yeah, I was equipped. I have— I'm a personal life coach, and I've been through toxic relationships myself, but God called me to that, and he equipped me with the skills I needed to reach these women in a very clear and very successful way where we could break free of those patterns and have Amazing, amazing results. And so let's fast forward to today. Several months ago, so when my coaching business, when I got it rebranded and we got going again back in February, and then March I hit another ceiling that I never thought I was going to reach. So after that, I really started talking to my husband who I manifested into my life after learning how to break free from my own patterns and cycles of unhealthy relationships. I sat down with him and I said, you know, I feel like this is obviously what God's calling me to. And so my, my year plan is that I'm going to, you know, do this full-time. I'm going to quit my corporate job and I'm going to do this full-time, which was absolutely terrifying for me to even think about. I am a very successful saleswoman in a large corporation that is nationwide, and I've gotten the top rating sales award every single quarter since I've worked there. Mm-hmm. We are the number one district in the nation, and that's not all because of me. It's my great, amazing team that's behind me. And my corporate, my corporate boss is a great driver. She's amazing at what she does. But you know, leaving that job with my cushy salary, the benefits, and really, really great commissions was hard to even think about. You know, I have health insurance for both me and my husband because my husband is right now interning To take over a business of someone who's pretty much family, so we rely on that. And so I gave myself a year out, and we started planning for that. But little did I know, I I remember writing down these goals. I'm like, okay, so when I hit this level of income in my coaching, then I'm going to be great. I'm gonna be fine. At that point, I can quit my corporate job. I won't need that salary anymore. I'll be great. And that was like, you know, way up, way up here for me. I was like, wow, this is unfathomable. I give myself a year, maybe 18 months to reach that. What ended up happening is within 3 months, I not only hit that goal But I far exceeded it, and I was like, "Oh my gosh! Well, okay. Well, when I have this amount of money in my business checking account, then I'll be okay." So what ended up happening is one day I went down to talk to my personal banker about my business account, and I got the little balance sheet. And I was like, oh, okay, so I broke that ceiling. Now what? So for the next month, month and a half, I have sat here wrestling with the idea of taking the big leap. And just going for it. And I've been terrified. And at first I made a lot of excuses. Well, no, you know, when this happens, then I'll, then I'll quit. Well, you know, now my sister community that's down the street a little ways, 15 miles, they don't have a sales director, so now I can't quit. Because they need me. And well, now we have a big corporate audit, so I can't quit because they need me. And then it was, oh well, now I have 6 units to sell as opposed to the usual 1 or 2 this month, so now I can't quit because they need me. And I just had excuse after excuse after excuse because I had no idea. I had given myself a year and I had no idea I was going to reach these goals within 3 months. But all of that has been the direct result of me seeking wise counsel, being still and knowing That God has called me to this because He has given me over and over numerous reports and confirmations that I, I cannot deny. I can't deny it. I sought wise counsel through others, through prayer. I work with my mentor coach. And I work with my personal coach, and I also have been working in a, a women's mastermind group called the Lioness Sisterhood. Give a shout out to my ladies. And because of all of that, I was able to not only reach my goals but far, far exceed them. And it is amazing what you can do when two or more are gathered in His name. You will reach your goals and have exceedingly and abundantly more than you could ever accomplish on your own. So ladies, I want to encourage you. If you're looking for a group of women to reach out to, this is it. This is where you're going to find the support and the love and the safety to really truly share those things that you know are laid on your heart today and yesterday and tomorrow. I can't tell you how many times I've worked with women and they have put all those dreams and hopes and wonderful goals that they had in their life back up on the bookshelf, and they just kept them there collecting dust. Ladies, don't let that dream collect dust anymore. Take that dream off the shelf, dust it off. And let's open it up, and let's bring it into fruition because you deserve to live that life. You deserve it. You deserve to live that life that you have always wanted. So ladies, I love you so much. I just love and appreciate all of the time that I get to spend here in this group. And let me just end my story by telling you guys the conclusion. So after a month, month and a half of wrestling with myself whether or not I would fully and completely step out into this life that I know God is calling me to, after much work doing the work. That hard work that I told you about of digging deeper and finding out what's really going on beyond, behind my fear and behind my self-sabotaging thoughts of putting it off. Just yesterday, I put in my 30-day notice at work, and I will be leaving the corporate world. And I will be stepping full-time into my coaching career because it is my passion and my total and complete purpose in life to reach as many women and help them live their dreams and their goals using the spiritual gifts that God has given them. That is my passion and my purpose. And if someone like me can do that and put in her notice and just jump, not knowing what the end result is going to be— I don't know what it's going to look like. I don't even know if I jump and halfway down things change, which they might. I'm just going to take the leap. And trust that God is carrying me through this. So ladies, I want to encourage you to comment below. What are your dreams? What would you like to see happen in the next year, the next 5 years, the next week? And 3, what is it that's stopping you From getting there, so that we as the High Vibe Tribe can encourage you and support you on your way there. I love you, High Vibe Tribe, and again, I'm Val Nichols coming at you, and I will continue to let you in on my journey as I leap and step into 100%. completely into the life that God is calling me to do. I love you. Bye.