Transcript excerpt from a YouTube video (Vishen Lakhiani) where two speakers discuss sexual compatibility in committed relationships. They argue sexual compatibility is as important as emotional, political, or religious compatibility, advise ending relationships sooner if sexual connection is absent, and warn that sex-negative cultural messages can discourage prioritizing sexual needs.
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Sexual compatibility is huge, especially if what you want is a sexually exclusive relationship. The letters. I get half of them in a week. We are best friends. Everyone always says that. We get along great. I love him, he loves me, or she loves me.
We agree politically.
Da da da. We can talk all night, but the sex is terrible. Da da da da. I've hung in there hoping that it would get better. We've worked on it. Nothing, nothing, nothing. And my answer is get in a time machine and.
Break up earlier.
And sooner. Because you should have been prioritizing sexual compatibility. It's as important in a sexually exclusive relationship. Not even in a sexual relationship. It's as important as emotional.
Political, religious.
Compatibility. But a sex negative culture convinces you.
That you're a dirty sex pervert if.
You prioritize it equally to those other things that you're.