Vishen Lakhiani argues compassion is primarily a practice for yourself, not others. Visualizing a loved one's face while feeling love shifts your heart resonance, a measurable physiological state linked to better health. HeartMath Institute research shows this heart rhythm change is trainable and makes you more loving.
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Compassion is not something you do for other people. That's a great side effect. Compassion is something you do for yourself. It changes the way you function and show up in the world. So there's a lot of science right now on compassion practices that derive from Zen Roshi Buddhism or even from the HeartMath Institute. For example, the HeartMath Institute found that if you just close your eyes and you see the face of someone you love, you see their eyes, you see their nose, you feel that love for them, you feel it in your heart area. It changes your heart resonance. And your heart resonance is a biomarker of health. In short, giving love to someone else instantly physiologically changes the heartbeat that you're having and puts it in a better state that shows that your body is in a healthy mode. Heart resonance correlates with health. You can train it. And when you train it, you become more loving.