Vishen LakhianiFounder of Mindvalley | NYT Bestselling Author | Transforming Lives Globally

Esther Perel Reveals The Secret to Thriving Relationships #shorts

10 Feb 2023 · 1 min

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A short YouTube clip (Vishen Lakhiani channel) featuring Esther Perel describing multiple pathways to a good relationship: some people benefit from focusing on themselves, others from stepping out of themselves to focus on someone else; some grow by becoming more thoughtful, others by becoming more vocal. She prompts viewers to assess how much attention they give to relationships across intimate partners, parents, siblings, and friends, and to weigh that against other success markers in life.

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What makes for a good relationship. For some people, it's the ability to, for the first time, focus on themselves. For other people, it's the ability to finally step out of themselves and focus on someone else. For some people, it's about becoming more thoughtful. For other people, it's about becoming more vocal. And from that place, you ask, how am I doing in the department of my relationships? Not just your intimate relationships in general, with your parents, your family, your siblings, your friends. How am I doing? How much have I attended to that part of my life? And how much am I attending to other success markers of my life?