Vishen Lakhiani argues that flawed people make better partners because they don't demand perfection from others. When someone accepts their own imperfections, they create space for their partner to be themselves without judgment or pressure.
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I mean, you know, Diana got left for Camilla and Camilla and Charles are really happy. She happens to think she's super hot. She's got great personality. She's got incredibly high self esteem. She's never feared rejection in her life. But people who are perfect get rejected actually more because nobody wants to hang out with perfect. They make them feel bad about themselves. I have many clients who really are perfect. Top models, movie stars, they're always the unhappiest people of all. Perfect people tend to be alone because actually we like people that are flawed because it lets us be flawed. It's quite nice when you take your clothes off, notice the other person's got a little bit of a tummy. You think, oh, I don't have to hold it in anymore now because they're flawed too. It's actually flawed people can have relationships with flawed people. Don't think, well, I need to be perfect first. And I won't be rejected. Be you. Because nobody can reject you unless you give them your permission and you never ever have to do that.