Are you seeking for love from the wrong partners? #childhoodtrauma #emotionalneglect #relationships

We've learned to give and receive love from our mother. A mother is a nurturer. A mother helps her children understand their emotions, how to regulate their emotions. But if she herself does not understand her emotions, does not know how to regulate her emotions, she's not going to attune to the child's needs, their emotional needs. And he will feel disconnected. He will feel like he needs to earn love. Because children are drawn to their biological parents and to earn love from them. Right? Because that's how they survive. So you grow into an adult still seeking to earn that love. And if you can't get it from your mother, you will subconsciously seek it out from a partner. And that means you might take on a project partner so that you can fulfill that desire. That was never completed as a child.