Transcript of a conversation on sexual energy, celibacy, and sexual transmutation. Alex describes sexual energy as a powerful creative force that can be either a distraction or channeled into productivity and self-mastery. He recounts practicing semen retention/celibacy for roughly six months, describes a peak moment of temptation after a Miami trip, and explains tactics he used (prayer, movement, breath work, circulation per Mantak Chia) to transmute urge energy; two days after the peak he met a woman who had been celibate for two years and who became his partner.
Questions this video answers
About five and a half to six months.
Literally within two days.
She had been celibate for two years.
Mantak Chia and Napoleon Hill.
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I see sexual energy as probably the most powerful energy in this world. It's creative energy. It's creative life force. You could create a whole human being with a sex, obviously, right? So that. And that's like the pinnacle, but it can also be used that, you know, and we. I've been there. Like, I've done crazy things for women and, you know, like. Like, I fly them here and this. And I'd like with the.
You spent way too much money and way too much time.
So much.
Trying to chase some hedonistic bullshit, for sure.
So I, So I. The power of.
Of.
Of women.
And.
And they're the most beautiful beings in the world, and they're so deep and. And all this things.
God, they're amazing. Such women, y' all are amazing.
Amazing. I love women. I always have. You know, it's. It was my vice for a long time. So, yeah, I know that. They have the power, right? They have. And sexual energy is so powerful, it could. It could capture our attention so easily. And so I see it as a. It's a setup in the game. Like, it's the ultimate distraction because it's all about capturing the human being's attention because whatever you put your attention into will grow, will flourish. You know, energy flows where focus goes. So it's all about capturing the attention. So what's the most alluring, distracting thing? Well, tits and ass and beautiful curves and all this. And the possibility that you might get with this girl if you get enough money in the matrix, so then keeps you going down this road rabbit hole. Because you got to build and consume to get this. And then you feel whole. It's all. It's all a trap. It's all a scam. So it's like realizing that and then realizing, okay, where does that even take you? You get the girl with the big ass and the nice tits and, okay, you get her and then you have sex and then you. You just blow your load. Like you've just released all that energy that it would built you up to. To get there. So what if you channel that energy into something else? What if you channel into building a company or building even a family, you know, but. And. And that's why I see now, you know, I'm a Hypocrite because I'm 40 years old, but I'm seeing the opposite of it is like, what if you wait to. To marriage to have sex? Like, and you just build that energy and build that energy and build a foundation with your. With your. Your fiance and your loved one and like, it's not all about the sex. Right. Like, I. Sex is amazing, and it's. It's the closest you could probably get to God, especially when you're in. In love and in union and sacred union, like you mentioned.
Yeah.
But it also can be, like the darkest sheamus, like, weirdest place, you know, if you let it. If you let it go there. And I've been there, too, so it's like, it's such a. A paradox, and it's so powerful. I think sexual energy is the most powerful energy in the world, and everything's energy. So it's like to be really careful and be really intentional with where we put our sexual energy and we could channel that energy. And Matakjia talks about that. I'm reading his book right now. It's awesome. And he says that, you know, know, Asian emperors used to pass this code down to their. To their sons. Like, okay, you hold the chi, you hold the seed. And this was the code of all codes that they didn't let any of the servants know or any of the common folk know. It was like, no, you hold the. The chi no matter what. You could have sex, but don't release the seed. And then the energy just builds and builds and builds and builds. And, you know, I saw it last year with myself, and I saw with the. The people that I learned this from was like, you build that energy and it. It stacks and it stacks and it stacks. And then you. You focus that energy on something and it will grow, you know, and there's a lot of. There's a lot of kids talking about this these days, which is pretty cool. Like, they're starting to get it. Yeah, yeah.
And it's actually even, I want to say, New Thought and Napoleon Hill, early 1900s, where he talked about sex, right? Sexual transmutation.
Yes, that's it.
That is a big one. He even talked about, I believe there was this model where he was describing, like, there was this beautiful secretary, and her sex energy was. Was the motivation, part and parcel, part of. For the CEO to succeed because he was inspired by her femininity. He was inspired by that sex energy. But here's the key. He didn't abuse it. He didn't have sex with his secretary. He just witnessed her in her fullness, in her vibration. And he was so inspired by just being around her vibe that it helped his company succeed. And that is actually a really big one. But the. The tactical is, how the hell do you wait that long? How do you go six months? What do you do with the urge. Because really, that's coming from a primal place. Right. And stack on top of that lowercase T, capital T. Trauma. The way we orient to sex, there's so many different recipes and ingredients as to how we even would show up to that moment of craving. But in that moment of craving, do you remember one moment of craving where you're like, wow, if I don't bust a nut right now.
Oh, yeah.
If I don't climax is a better way to say it. If I don't climax right now, I feel like I might explode.
Yeah. Oh, yeah.
How did you get from that place of intense craving to dropping back in your body and transmuting that sex energy for productivity? How exactly did you do that?
Yeah, I'm glad you asked that. I remember exact moment. I just got back from Miami, and, you know, if anyone's been to Miami lately, it's crazy.
Like, there's thongs everywhere.
There's thongs. There's beautiful, curvy women everywhere. It's like, it's a. It's ridiculous. Like, it is the peak of this matrix game. Like, it is the ultimate temptation place.
Yeah, I can imagine.
So I just got back from Miami, and I'm like, you know, I'm. I'm six months in at this point. I think I'm like five and a half months in of the. The celibacy and the semen retention. So I'm like, my energy is super strong, and I'm.
I'm.
I'm crushing it. You know, I'm. I'm at conferences and stuff like that. I'm attracting a lot of women, but I'm staying focused. And I just got back to Austin from Miami, and I had two different girls reach out to me that weekend. And they were. They were, you know, being aggressive. They were going for it. They're like, hey, what are you doing? Let's hang out. Let's. You know. And then one starts sending pictures and videos.
It's almost like they sense, like, the feminine and. And please, y' all write or comment, because I'm. I'm learning. They almost sense when you don't want it.
Yeah.
And it's so attractive, and it's magnetic.
Yeah.
When a man doesn't want sex because it opens up this capacity for the feminine to choose if she wants it or not. And it's so rare for her to feel that way.
Right.
That she's like, oh, this is tantalizing, for sure. So funny how that plays out.
It's so true. It's a paradox. And it. I got to experience that all last year. It was like, you know, women were all over me, God bless him. But it was really. It's an energetical thing because I was just. I was holding the energy, right? I had the. I had my seed. I had the. The power. I had self mastery. And I think that's super attractive to anybody is self mastery.
Yes, the self mastery.
It's a code, right? And most people these days don't have it. I'm not saying I have it, but for those five months, six months, I was. I was getting there. You know, I was still a student, but I was getting on. I could see the. How women would react to that. And it was awesome. You know, it was. It was intoxicating. And so that weekend, that's just to answer your question, that's when I reached my peak, where I was like, these two individual girls, they didn't know about each other, both messaging me, both very attractive and sending videos. And, you know, it was getting. It was getting pretty tantalizing. It was getting pretty tempting. And I was like, holy. I was reaching a peak. And I was like, hey, do I just do this right now? To invite one over, to invite both over. And that was like the peak of my temptation. And I honestly just got on my knees and I prayed. I prayed to God. I said, God, please help me get through this weekend. You know, don't let me do something that I'm gonna regret. I made it this far with the faith that I'm doing. I'm doing this for you. I'm doing this for me. I'm doing this for my highest good. I'm doing this for eons. I'm doing this for my family and future family and all this kind of stuff. So just get me through this, God. And I just prayed and it passed. You know, the feeling passed. And then I went and kept myself busy with pickleball or go for a run or something like that. You got to channel the energy. For sure. You gotta channel the energy because, like, you'll just get so pent up. And Mantak Gia talks about that. You gotta breathe, you gotta circulate it. You gotta bring it throughout your whole being. So it's not just in your lower chakra, the survival chakra, the primal, like, just wants to release and. And, you know, you gotta. You gotta move it around. So I went to go move it around, and it passed, you know, and then literally within two days of that peak temptation I met, I got. Yeah, I. I basically met my. What became my girlfriend, and she had been celibate for two years. She was incredibly, you know, what a woman. I'd never met a woman like this before. Incredibly deep, incredibly profound spiritually. And, you know, had a deep relationship with Jesus, and she said she's been celibate for two years. And. And that's what got me on my celibacy. Pat just met this being that I never met before. And, yeah, I could have went to old Alex and, you know, had sex with the spiritual Barbie type chick that I was always attracted to, but I was like, no, I. I finally got past that level of the game. Yeah, Spiritual Barbie. Yeah. And. And then it. God presented me with a new path, you know, and it was someone that was like, sacred union potential, you know, and, you know, it didn't necessarily work out, but what I learned throughout that was, was some of the most valuable lessons in my life.
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