Josh TrentIdentity Transformation Architect and award winning Host of the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast—a decade-strong show with over 750 episodes and 15M downloads.

STOP TURNING PRINCES INTO FROGS

8 Jul 2025 · 1 min

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This YouTube clip ("STOP TURNING PRINCES INTO FROGS") features Alison Armstrong explaining how certain female behaviors—specifically "leading with sexuality"—can trigger primitive instincts in men and bring out their worst traits. Armstrong uses a personal anecdote, describing herself as a former "frog farmer" who initially emasculated men and later stopped doing so, after which men became more caring and protective toward her.

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When you lead with sexuality, you're going to bring out the worst in men. Having no idea that when we do that, we are appealing to the most primitive of primitive instincts. Procreate. Why is it that men are wonderful in the beginning and then within a few weeks or a few months they turn into sports? Watching pizza eating beer belching couch slugs? What if men are responding to women? I was a frog farmer. A frog farmer is a woman who instead of turning frogs into princes as in bring out the best in men, turns princes into frogs. Brings out the worst. And so after I laid down my sword, after I gave up emasculating men, which was six months into studying men, during which I used everything I'd learned against men, I became more manipulative and more harmful. So after I gave up emasculating men, men became so proactively caring me, looking out for me, taking care of me.