A woman has built her entire identity around supporting everyone else, pushing her own desires aside. She enables others to succeed while staying on the sidelines of her own life, never creating space for what she actually wants.
What's behind her making that decision is the fact that she has spent her whole life and she has built her whole identity around being everybody's support system. She's been everything to everyone, and somewhere in there she kind of minimized her own needs because she had to make room to be able to support and serve everybody else's needs. So she's been sitting on the sidelines of her own life while everybody else grows and everybody else reaches and everybody else thrives and strives, while she's just kind of sitting there supporting everybody in their endeavors to be successful, whatever their definition of success is. But she's never made room for her to have that same experience.
