How to Let Go of Control and Detach from the Outcome

Sam explains how attachment to outcomes blocks manifestation. Instead, reverse-engineer the feeling you want, hold it briefly to send a vibration into the universe, then let go. A visualization exercise and heart-centered mantra help cultivate peace and positive expectation.
Hi and welcome back. Today I want to cover the topic of the out of detachment, or letting go of control in order to manifest the things that we want. When you get attached to the outcome, we are holding on too tightly. If you can imagine the thing that you're asking for, you want it so bad, you're holding on so tightly. How can the universe give you what you want? In order to receive from the universe, you need to let go to receive. So that detachment process allows us to actually accept the gifts of the universe. Now, when we get attached, the outcome is strictly connected to our ego. Now, our ego states that I will be happy when I have this in my life, or I will feel successful or sexy or attractive or desirable when I have this in my life. When I have this house, this car, this job, these people in my life, then I'll be successful. And this is where we separate ourselves from the thing that we want. You need to actually reverse engineer that and say, okay, what would it feel like to have that thing in my life? Now, it's really the feeling you're after. Not so much the thing, but the feeling you're after. So if you think about the thing that you really want, the thing you're holding on so tightly, to think about that for a moment, okay? It hasn't come to you yet, but you want it so badly. Think about that thing. How would you feel if you had it in your life right now? Okay, it could be something material, like the house that you're going for or the job that you're looking to get. It could be something physical, or it could simply be an experience that you want. So it could be experience of, of going on maybe a holiday, for instance. How that feel like to have that thing in your life? So just take a few moments, get into that feeling place. What would it feel like? Okay. And you need to hold it for just over a minute. That's strong enough to send your vibration out into the universe. So imagine what would it feel like to have that thing in my life. Okay, Send that feeling out to the universe. This is what I want to feel when I have this thing. This is how I'm going to feel. Okay? That frequency, that vibration is sent out in the universe, and now you've got to let it go. You have to get yourself to a place where you're detached from the outcome. Often we get connected to how things are going to come to us. Leave the how to the universe, connect with the why. Why do you want it? And the why is really the feeling you're after. That's your why. Connect with that why? And your things can come to you. So detach from perhaps battling with your ego to feel happy once you have this stuff, feel the happiness now. Feel that joy, now that bliss. Because remembering that love and joy and peace are one of the highest vibrations. And those vibrations that you're going to magnetize more experiences that are in alignment with that love, joy and happiness. Okay, There's a very famous quote which says, when you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you. I want to do one more exercise with you, and this exercise will help you to get into that vibration of detachment. Okay? So when you detach, you're at peace. When you detach, you're in the vibration of love and the positive expectation that the thing that you're asking for is going to come to you. In order to do that, you need to step out of your ego self and into your true, authentic self. In order to do that, you need to invoke the divine energy within you, that divine power that will bring that manifestation to you. So this is a very quick, short little mantra that you can do. So you begin by closing your eyes, centering yourself within your heart. Remember, your heart has the largest electromagnetic field, so it's going to be very powerful for magnetizing those things to you. So close your eyes, center yourself within your heart, and you're going to begin with a mantra. I let go and I let source. I let go and I let source. I let go and I let source to work through me, with me and around me, and just take a few deep breaths. And that breath will help to allow that spirit to flow in through your body with grace and ease. You should feel much more at peace, much more in the expectation that your manifestation is coming without the need to hold onto it any longer. So I hope you found this useful. Post your comments below on how you found this exercise and have a fantastic day, Sam.










