A short monologue asserting that the happiest people practice faith, maintain close family ties, have genuine friendships, and find meaning in their work. The speaker argues these four daily habits declined in the latter part of the 20th century—leading to increased loneliness and a more mechanical, less vocational relationship to work.
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The happiest people, they do four things every day, okay? They practice their faith. They are close to their families. They have friends, real friends, not deal friends, real friends. And they take their work seriously. They get meaning from their work, which really comes from feeling like they're earning their success, creating value and serving other people. Those four things are the secrets to the happiest life. That's what you need. Those are the happiness habits is what it comes about. And all four of those started going into decline in the latter part of the 20th century. People were less and less likely to practice faith. They were less and less likely to get married and start families. They were also more likely to have schisms with their families of origin for stupid things like politics. People are getting lonelier and lonelier, and that's accelerated in modern times when people don't have real friends. And the relationship with work has changed. We have a different relationship with work than we have in the past. We don't have a sense of calling and we don't have a sense of vocation with work. It's a lot more mechanical. It's a lot more practical in the way that we actually see the way we earn our daily bread.