A speaker describes feeling empty despite having a big house and accomplishments, then discovering that true fulfillment comes from focusing on who you want to become rather than external goals. Centering on identity and desired self led to increased magnetism, better relationships, stronger leadership, and confidence.
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We're clocking in, we're clocking out, we're looking at what other people are doing, and we're feeling empty in where we are in our lives. We're feeling confused as to our purpose in this world. And despite these successes, right? And the big— Yes. And the big house. Yes, exactly. You have all of the things, you have the accomplishments show, but like, why am I not feeling good? Why am I not feeling happy? Feeling whole. And so I went on this whole journey of trying to figure out what that was. And once I found my alignment, once I found my intention, once I started changing and focusing on, instead of setting the goal, focusing on the feeling, the woman that I wanted to become, the person I wanted to become, the leader I was striving to be. Once I focused on that mission, the way that I was accomplishing the goals totally changed and the feelings behind them shifted dramatically. And it's all of a sudden, like, I stepped into my power. I started becoming magnetic. Like, everything changed. My relationships, the way I was leading, the way the confidence that I had. And so to me, like, that is, was the biggest turning point personally and professionally. And when you could create that alignment between your personal and your professional lives, life, like when it all starts to work together, like the joy, the happiness, the relief, everything changes.