Power Tip - How to Keep Your Man in Your Bed!!

Here's my take when it comes to relationships, specifically how to keep the man in your bed and not someone else's. That might not be literally or physically, it could be just from a wandering eye or a sneak peek on sites like Ashley Madison. Why is it men wander and what can you ladies learn as a result of that? Well, it just so happened that our guest today on Shedding the Bitch Radio was Mary Knight. She's an ex-call girl and she wrote a book called How to Keep the Men Out of My Bed. Me— basically saying, ladies, they're coming to me for a reason and now I'm going to share why in order for you to make a change and make things different. This is what they told her. They basically said they're looking for understanding, appreciation, excitement inside and outside the bedroom. They're looking for things to be shaken up every once in a while. They're looking for some concentrated attention, not only on them but on the "us" of the relationship. And therefore, when they're not getting it home for many reasons, but the one core reason I want to make sure that you think about is If you're sitting at home thinking you're not good enough, you're not pretty enough, you're not sexy enough, you're not good enough for the partner that you're with, that is specifically, you know, being projected in everything and anything that you do. And he or she is responding to that, and therefore that person, male or female, is looking elsewhere for what it is that they need within the relationship that they feel is lacking. So now, Mary and I also went on to talk about Law of Attraction. You know I'm a huge proponent. And how can Law of Attraction help you in this situation? Well, if you haven't studied up on it, do so. But basically, Law of Attraction looks at this: it looks at the fact that your thoughts turn into beliefs, of which those beliefs are what causes the actions you take. Which then generate the results, you know, from those actions. So let me break it down. If you are telling yourself you're not pretty enough, you're not good enough, you're not sexy enough, those are all— sooner or later, those are going to turn into your belief systems. And as a result of those belief systems, you're going to start hiding, you're going to start wearing, you know, big jogging suits to bed, you're going to stop having sex at all, you're going to stop being intimate with him and maybe, maybe even your friends, which then those are the actions that you're taking are, are those things of which is going to result in no intimacy, no connection, no sex, and no ultimate satisfaction. So if you want to change your result, you have to go back and change the thoughts that fed your beliefs that then created the actions and the results, plain and simply. And you deserve complete happiness in all areas of your life, including the relationship with your mate. So you have an opportunity to change thoughts, change the beliefs you have, therefore take different actions and have a different result. It's all up to you. All right, now our conversation with Mary Knight today was great, so go to sheddingthebitch.com or BlogTalkRadio www.sheddingthebitch.com/sheddingthebitch and you will find our latest episode of Shedding the Bitch Radio with Mary Knight. And definitely download it, take it with you and listen to it. You'll gain some great insights and learnings in regards to law of attraction and a number of other things. All right? And then always go to sheddingthebitch.com for more videos, more radio shows, more tips and resources. And of course, come right back here to our Shedding the Bitch YouTube channel for more Bernadette's Takes and Rich Tips.