Become your Future Self with the BE-DO-HAVE Model | 43
28 Apr 2026 · 45 min
Betsy Guerra explains how to become your future self by embodying who you want to be first, which shifts your thoughts and actions to match. She uses the brain's reticular activating system to show how beliefs filter what you notice, and shares how she manifested her husband and rewired a family money-scarcity mindset through visualization and affirmations.
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You are the creator and producer of your life movie, and you have the power to create the life that you desire to live, and you have the power to become the person you are meant to be. And today I am going to teach you how to do exactly that. If you listen to my podcast of September of 2025, when I interviewed my husband, you know that I manifested my husband. He's my supporting actor in my movie, and I created him. I created him. I hired him. I brought him into my movie. And you have the possibility of creating supporting actors and actresses in yours or eliminating or moving them or changing them or whatever you want to do. We only have power over ourselves, but because this is our movie, we have power over so much that surrounds us without even trying to control them or have them do what we want them to do. By changing ourselves, we produce and direct our own movie. Okay, I know that sounds a little confusing, so let me explain. Last week we talked about how your thoughts are sentences. And the more you engage with a thought and you believe it, the more it forms into something that's automated, which we call beliefs. And then the more you believe something, the more repetitive that belief is, then it becomes your reality. You manifest it into your physical reality. So thoughts are mere sentences that pop up in your mind. We don't have to believe them. We don't have to engage with them. We can just disengage. We can just recognize them, observe them, and be like, oh, look at that. That came up into my mind. Mind, that would be crazy for me to believe. So then you discard it, or you can formulate, as is the case with affirmations, you can formulate new thoughts, or you can engage and believe, choose to believe new thoughts that serve you so that you may create a reality that is worth watching for others that are watching your movie. So we learned that last week. If you haven't listened to that episode, you can go back and listen. And this week I am going to teach you how to be intentional about forming and creating beliefs. And I am also gonna teach you what is the spiritual model of manifestation. Like, how is it that spiritually speaking, we get to accomplish our goals, become the person we wanna become, rise into greatness, find the love of our lives. Like, what do you wanna manifest in your life? I got you. And if you haven't listened to the podcast on manifestation, go back to January of 2026. And please don't miss that because it's very, very powerful and important information. Okay. So now that we know that thoughts are just sentences and the more you engage and repeat them, the more you become and, you know, you form beliefs. We understand a little bit of the science. We also know from last week's episode that the mind is always looking for evidence of what it already believes. That subconscious mind is always looking for information in the outside world that will prove what is already true to you in terms of your beliefs in your subconscious mind. So there's a part of the brain called the reticular activating system, the RAS, and that part of the brain is the one in charge of you filtering the external information and even the internal information because Sometimes the information is coming from your own thoughts. So that reticular activating system is, there's so many stimuli out in the world that it's always like having to filter, like what do I focus on? What do I pay attention to? 'Cause if you had to pay attention to all the thousands of stimuli outside of you or even within you, your brain would explode. So in order to protect your brain, the RAS is there to just, filter things out and focus on what is aligned, what seems important or significant. And the significance is based on what you already believe in your subconscious mind. So let's say, like, you know, I always explain that if you're looking to buy a Jeep and you're thinking Jeep, seeing Jeeps, like all the magazines that you look at have Jeeps, you go to the car dealerships, you ask people who have Jeeps, you're constantly talking, thinking, imagining, visualizing your future Jeep, then what happens when you go outside and for a drive? Everybody has a Jeep. You see more Jeeps than there's ever been. And then you're able to confirm like, oh, I knew it, Jeep is the way to go. I knew it, I knew, I knew it because I've been, you know, like I'm seeing them everywhere. You're probably seeing the same amount of Jeeps, but now you're noticing them because your reticular activating system, your RAS, is filtering for that information. It's looking for evidence that Jeeps are the cars that are in style. So that's the RAS, and that's the science behind why we look for evidence of what we already believe. And if we use what we know about the brain, we get to outsmart it by being intentional about creating the thoughts, the beliefs, the realities, the movie that we desire to experience in our lives. So let's talk about the spiritual model of manifestation, the spiritual model of bridging the gap between who you are being and who you desire and are called to be. So anything that you desire to accomplish, be, have, do, this is the model. That you're going to follow. Now, before we get to the spiritual model of manifestation, I want to tell you what society says is the model. Quick interruption to invite you to my next webinar on April 29th titled How Good Can Life Get? A Psycho-Spiritual Formula for More Joy, More Peace, and Purpose in Every Area of Your Life. So life may awesome, you're blessed, I know, I know you have a good life and you get to thank God for that, but there's a call to more. Something is missing and something is separating you from the best version of yourself, from the life you're called to live, and ultimately from God. So here you're going to discover what that is and you're going to learn my psycho-spiritual integration model, which will change your life forever. I promise. So go to faithbasedcoachingacademy.com/fw and register for free for the next webinar, April 29th. I can't wait to see you. Back to the episode. According to society, the framework to experience the life that you desire is have, do, be. If you have the money, then you can do the things that people with money and wealthy people do, and then you can be rich and wealthy and free. So you have— you need to have it first, make the money first, then you can do what someone with money does, and then you can be financially free, you can be wealthy, you can be rich. Makes sense, right? Well, it should make sense because that's the human, the worldly way. So that it's what the brain can understand. But we know that spirituality and our relationship with God, our greatness and infinite wisdom, transcend humanity. It transcends our limitations. So we're going to focus on a very different model that will get you to where you desire to be a lot faster. it will be sustainable, and you will feel extremely fulfilled, not when you arrive, but in the entire journey. Be, do, have is the spiritual model of manifestation. Instead of having the money, doing the thing that the person with money can do, and then being happy, free, wealthy, rich, You now get to be wealthy, be abundant, be rich, be free now. And you do that by building your thought process, by building your beliefs, by becoming the version of you that you think you'll be when you have all the things that you desire. You're gonna be that now. And from that identity, from that energy, from that beingness, From there, you get to act. And then you'll eventually manifest into your physical reality. And you will have the thing that you thought was going to give you the peace, the freedom, the joy, the fulfillment, the richness, the wealthiness, whatever it is that you desire to experience in the beingness. Okay. So every time we want something, we typically want it because we believe that's going to lead to us feeling a certain way, us being happy, of us being free. Like, we think that if I make $1 million, then I'll be happy and I'll be financially free and I'll be fulfilled and I'll feel successful, right? So we always think that like having leads to being. And the reason we typically set goals and we want things and we desire things in life is because ultimately we just want to be happy. And call happy what you will. You can call it happy, you can call it free, you can call it loved, fulfilled, successful. Put the name that you want, but ultimately, it all has to do with happiness. We want things because we think they're gonna lead us to being happy. If we finish this, if we run a marathon, we're gonna feel happy, successful, fulfilled. Like, oh man, I got this. I could do this. Right? So everything that we want to have or do, we typically want to have it or do it because we want what comes with the beingness. So just think of the state of being in relation to what are my thoughts when I'm in a certain identity? What are my beliefs? What are my emotions, right? So when we're talking about be, we're talking about how do I feel? What am I thinking? What's my energy like? What are my beliefs? Like, what is the experience, the inner experience that you have within? Okay, so, you know, what does wealthy feel like? What does being loved by the person that you've always dreamt of having, your soulmate, feels like? What does fulfillment, success feel like? We're gonna start with that. And the beauty is that when we start with being, we already won. It doesn't matter how long it takes us to fulfill and manifest the having. If we're already being, that's why we wanted to have it and do it anyway. So we won. And then the journey becomes the outcome. The journey becomes the outcome. So let's go back to Be, Do, Have. If you want to be loved, if you're looking to find the love of your life, if you're wanting to make, like, live a fulfilling marriage because you've been struggling, or, or maybe you're not struggling but it doesn't feel like, like fulfilling, and it's not amazing, it's okay, right? Like, you've settled, you're content. Let's say, like, you want to be loved. Then what would that look like? What would being loved feel like? Would you feel attractive? Would you feel looked at and attended to? Would you feel appreciated? Would you feel irresistible? Would you feel confident? Would you feel, I don't know, like floating, like you're floating, infatuated, and living in a world of rainbows and butterflies? What would that feel like? And then create that feeling. Visualize it. The conscious mind gave us the power to imagine and visualize things we've never experienced. So you need not have experienced that deep fulfillment in a relationship that you long for. You can just imagine it. And in the measure that you visualize it and you imagine it and you feel the butterflies and you feel like loved and attractive and appreciated and all the things that just Close your eyes, visualize yourself feeling all the feels, and create them. Remember that the brain is always— it's creating matter. So if you create a thought of love, an emotion of gratitude, of joy, if you create that in a vision, in a movie that you put in your mind, then that matter that you create in your brain is going to tell your body how to feel, and it's going to create those emotions. Remember that according to Dr. Joe Dispenza, thoughts are the language of the mind, emotions are the language of the body. And if you listened to last week's podcast, you know that when you formulate thoughts, you create matter, and that sends a message to the body so that it creates emotions in accordance to those thoughts. So visualize yourself feeling loved, feeling appreciated, feeling fulfilled, feeling like you have like eyes for nobody else, and that your person has eyes for nobody else but you too, and that you're admired and appreciated. Like, just visualize that and feel into that. How does that feel? And then form thoughts through affirmations. I am loved. I'm the happiest wife. Happy wife, happy life. I like— if that's the thing that you're looking for, Or maybe it's a financial situation and you're just tired of playing catch-up and you're ready to make some real money so that you can feel that you're free to be generous, you're free to invest, you're free to spend, you're free to give to others from what you have. Or perhaps the thing that you desire is to rise above this challenge, this adversity, this loss, this grief. And you don't know where to start. You don't know, like, you feel like, okay, if time passes by, then I'll have some peace, and then I'll be able to do the, you know, what I used to do before I was going through this, and then I'll be happy again, or then I'll be healed. Well, why not start with the being now? What would the version of you that is already healed, that has already risen above this challenge and adversity, what would, What would that look like? What things would you feel? What thoughts would you have? What would you believe in your heart? How would you act? That's the doing, right? Like, how would you show up? What would you do or not do? And then go for that right now. Step into that identity of that higher version of yourself, that future self who already accomplished what you desire to experience. Step into that person, and from that place, do. From that place, take action. So to give you an easy example, there was a time in which I had to do a lot of money mindset reprogramming in my brain. I grew up with the belief that money is to give away to the poor. And my dad is a very generous person, and he always had a lot of money in his wallet, a lot of cash, just in case someone in need, like, happened to show up, or he was exposed to someone that needed help, like, so that he could immediately give out that money and support them and help them. Very generous, biggest heart I've ever known. And I inherited a little bit of that gene, but with some distortion. I grew up thinking, "Love thy neighbor at your cost. Give yourself, sacrifice, give all you have to those who have a little bit less and sacrifice yourself in the process." And that hasn't served me. I have made decisions with regards to my relationships that haven't served me. I have chosen people in my life that have taken advantage of me. Or that I have taught them how to receive while I do and give. You know, I've created all those patterns. And it wasn't until I did my personal development work through my psychotherapy when I was in grad school that I realized like, oh my gosh, here I am thinking like, pobrecita yo, like I'm the victim. And I'm so good to people and I was so good to my ex-boyfriends. And, you know, many times they just got comfortable and they just waited for me to do and give. And I created that. I created, I taught people how to not do for me, how to not give me, 'cause I wasn't comfortable receiving. I didn't know how to receive or ask because my role always was to do, to give, to sacrifice, to bend over backwards. No wonder I became a therapist. So it served me. It was wonderful. It served me in many ways. But it was screwing me up in many other aspects of my life, especially my business. I did this in my business again. I was able to work a lot on the relationship part, and I choose the best people in my life. I have the best supporting actors and actresses. I've done a really good job with that. So I now surround myself with people who are— not only are they not going to take advantage of me, they're going to give as much as I do. They're going to protect me when I'm giving too much at my cost. They're going to look out for me. Me, it's like the best. So usually when I go out with my friends or even team members, we're fighting over who pays because I want to pay. And they're like, no, I want to pay. No, it's my turn. No, it's my turn. And it's a beautiful life to live. But I created those supporting actors and actresses by doing this work. So now I'm out. But then I came to work. I had a business. And I found myself falling into the same old habits of, Okay, let me give more to my team members. Let me overpay, let me overgive, let me— And then it got to the point that it wasn't sustainable. And guess what? I start experiencing the same thing that I experienced in relationships in the past, resentment. I start resenting them, I start feeling used, I start feeling unappreciated, I start feeling taken advantage of. I'm creating that. I'm the producer and director of my movie. So as soon as I realized that I'm in this predicament again, very familiar, I'm the common denominator. It happened in the past with relationships. It's happening now in my work environment. It's mine. I am the common denominator. So as soon as I realized that, I was like, no, I need to change something. So I was doing a lot of money mindset. I was starting, I was trying to believe that I was worthy of keeping some money, that I was worthy of having, luxuries or beautiful moments and experiences. I'm not a big luxury person in terms of, like, brands and clothes and purses and shoes and whatever, but I love to experience moments. I call them holy moments. I love to have, like, go out to a nice dinner with someone I love. I love to go on vacation with my family and splurge. I love those things, but I felt always a little guilty, or like that version of me that was always playing catch-up, I was always giving everything that came in, it was coming right back out to people who I felt needed it more. That version of me felt guilty about keeping money, felt guilty about spending money on herself, felt guilty about going on a splurge, like, you know, splurging on something that she liked. And the new identity that I needed to tap into in order to process, that be, do, have model, was someone who felt worthy of the same things that I believe other people are worthy of. A person who didn't feel guilty by keeping money or investing, spending on something that was important to her. So I had to do a lot of money mindset work. I read all the books in the world about this. I did meditations. I did prayers. I did visualizations. You name it. It was a whole year. And then I had a vision of how much money I wanted to have in my business bank account to feel like the kind of businesswoman who always had more money than she knew what to do with. And that was like the belief. I have more money than I know what to do with. So then I stepped into that identity by creating, constructing the thoughts, the beliefs, that the future version of myself who actually had more money than she knew what to do with would think. What would she think about? What would she worry or not worry about? I didn't have to worry about investing on someone I wanted to hire. I didn't have to worry about buying things I needed for the office because I wasn't sure if I was gonna have enough. That, like, that version of myself also was a good steward of money. The money that came in, she would steward according to God's ways, and she would invest and spend and save and share and gift appropriately. So what did that look like? Every time I received money, I closed my eyes and I practiced gratitude, because that version of me was so grateful for everything, for everything that came in. That version of me, instead of pushing it away, 'cause I don't know how to receive, and this feels super uncomfortable, that version of me was like, give it to me, baby. And thank you, Jesus. Thank you for being so generous to me. Thank you for this abundance. Thank you for, for the expression of appreciation that is money that has been given to me, because that means I am using my gifts wisely and I'm stewarding them well for your glory. So every time that I received money, I closed my eyes. Sometimes I would like just go into my bank account and I would look at the number and I would just practice gratitude. And I would pause, and I would take a minute to, like, just take it in and feel into it, to create that emotion in my body. And I would be grateful, and I would thank God and all the things. And I appreciated every little thing. That version of me also believed that any expense was an expression of appreciation. It was— It was an opportunity to bless someone who was doing something that was blessing me. It was an investment. So I love to pay people, love to pay people. I never invest in something that feels like, oh, I have to pay you. Like, I don't want to. That's too expensive. It's too much money. I love to pay people like here. Like, I want to throw my credit card at them. So I choose who I desire to work with and who or what do I wanna invest on that is in alignment with the mission that I'm in and the time of that mission, right? 'Cause there's something that I learned about myself is that I invested on the right things at the wrong time. So I was also a better steward in terms of discerning, this is a good thing, I'm investing on a good thing, but is this the time to do this? Is that timing off? And that person, that version of me was wiser, was discerning, was a good steward. So some of the beliefs that I created were, I receive money and I really step into gratitude and, like, just indulge in it. When I spend money, I feel so grateful and lucky that I get to appreciate or express appreciation by by giving money to someone who's doing something important for me. I also believed that— like, I also started to give meaning to my investments, right? So I remember one day going to the spa with my two best friends, and there was a chocolate, a dark chocolate that was sweetened with dates instead of sugar. And we are very mindful of our health in my house, and my husband is— He loves dark chocolate and he loves healthy things. So I was like, oh, I love this. Like, no sugar, no fake, you know, sweeteners. I was like, I need to get this chocolate. And it was like a little bar of chocolate, like kind of like a Hershey bar, like that size. It was $20. $20 bar of chocolate. I was like, what the heck? And then I was like, wait, wait, wait. What would that future version of me think about this chocolate? She would think like, oh my goodness, Alain would be so happy with this chocolate. He would really enjoy it and indulge with it and, you know, like guilt-free. I think he'd appreciate it. So that's what I would think as my future version. What would I believe about the price of that? I believe that if $20 is all I'm gonna pay to have a beautiful gesture with my husband, something that's thoughtful, and detail-oriented, like, I'm like, that's a steal. That's a steal. Some people go out there and buy, you know, thousands of dollar purses. I'm buying something for just $20. Maybe the scarcity fearful, I don't spend on me, and I don't, you know, spend on things that are not reasonably, quote unquote, priced. Maybe that version of me would be like, $20 for a bar of chocolate? And I'm not gonna lie, she came up and that was my First impression. But then I was like, wait, wait, wait, let me just connect with that version of me that has no money problems. What would she think? She would think, oh, what a nice gesture. What would she believe? She'd believe like, what, $20 for a beautiful gesture to make my husband happy? Let's go. And what would she feel? Gratitude that she has the $20 to spend on this. And that she can support the small business of the person who created the chocolate and formulated that recipe. So now, when I'm spending money, I feel like I'm contributing. I feel like I am pleasing. I'm gifting. I'm being my best self. It feels good. That is being. That comes from being, thoughts, beliefs, feelings, experiences. And from that identity, from that being, then I do. I bought the bar of chocolate. By the same token, that same week, I went to Ross or TJ Maxx or one of those. They're my favorite stores. I went to one of those, and there was a really cheap, it was on sale, a really cheap tank top. And I tried it on and it was okay, but I didn't love it. But it was like $2 or something like that. The old version of me would buy it because it's just $2 for a shirt. Like, wow, that's a steal. But the newer version of me doesn't buy anything that she doesn't absolutely love. So yeah, it's only $2, but I don't absolutely love it. Why am I going to spend money on that? Even if it's $2, right? So that's what being. That's what stepping into being looks like. And I gave you an example with money, but it could be with legal issues. It could be with love, relational, resentment, forgiveness issues. It could be with, with goals or things that you want to achieve. It could be with, with school, anything, anything that you're going through. That's hard, it could be with grief. I remember when Fofi died, I needed so badly to believe that I could be happy again, that I could be a joyful version of myself. And I knew I couldn't go back to my old self because when things like that happen in your life, you cannot go back to being who you were. And if you do, you wasted that pain. You must rise up into greatness. You must become a better version of yourself when you're going through grief, loss, cancer, illness, whatever, whatever hardship you've gone through. You must not go back, which is what we long for. The brain is wired to keep us safe, and the way it does that is by keeping everything the same. So we want to go back to how things were. Heck no. Don't waste that pain. Don't waste that pain. You go forward. You go up. You rise up into greatness. So I knew I couldn't be who I was before, but I was hoping I could experience joy again. I lived a fairytale life. I wanted to create a new, better fairytale movie. I didn't think I could. How? How do I live without my daughter? She was mine. She was obsessed with me. My oldest is Papi's. She was the second. She was mine. She loved me the most. How could I live without her? I didn't know. I didn't know how to do this. But I know a Guy. I know someone who does. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. So with my faith, I anchored in my faith, and I asked God, "Show me how to be the kind of woman who is happy again after such a loss. Show me how to be the kind of woman who feels peace, the peace that surpasses understanding that You promised us. Show me the kind of woman who repurposes her pain and uses it for good, and gives it away, and gives hope in the process." Show me, God, how to be that person. And every day I would wake up and I would think, I feel like staying in bed, crawling up in a ball, crying, because I'm waking up to a life where she's not a part of anymore, at least physically. And I remember thinking like, what would the happier version of me, what would the I found joy again version of me feel right now? Gratitude. Gratitude for a new day. Gratitude for my other 3 kids. Gratitude for life. Gratitude for my faith that's holding me up. Gratitude for the best freaking husband in the entire world. Gratitude. And then from there, I would act. And the action is get out of bed. Something as simple and minimal as that. Get out of bed, Betsy. And then I would smile to my kids, and I would feed them, and I would take care of them, and I would take them to school and pick them up and be a good mom and be happy because I had them, not just sad because I lost Fofi. And that all came from the BE DO HAVE model. I wasn't happy yet. But what would the happy person think? What would she believe? What would she experience? What would she feel? I would consult with her. Create that image of your future self, of the self that God created you to be and the self that you long to become. And then consult her, borrow from her the belief. Borrow, borrow it from me. Borrow it from the people around you that inspire you. Borrow the belief. Borrow the I am statements, the thoughts. And borrow those feelings. Create those feelings in your body by visualizing, by sitting with the limitless possibilities that are available to you. What we typically do instead, and I am very guilty of this, even to this day, is we are constantly proving why it's not going to work. And we're constantly looking for evidence as to why we shouldn't get excited about it because we're going to set up ourselves for failure. We're constantly doing that. We're catastrophic. It's easy. It's how the brain works. And if you've heard this podcast before, I don't know which one it is that I mentioned it, but there's something called the Velcro-Teflon theory of the mind that says that everything that's negative sticks to the brain, sticks to the mind like Velcro. And then everything that is positive slides like butter on Teflon. So we need to make a greater effort to really make the positive stick. Because naturally what happens is that we forget. We forget all the things that were good the moment that it becomes hard or that hardship shows up. Be. Be your future self now. Joe Dispenza says, "Remember your future self." And typically we're like, "What? Remember? Like, you can't remember something that hasn't happened." But if it happens in your vision, in your mind, than it did. That's why visualization is such a powerful exercise. See it in your mind first. Visualize yourself the way you desire to be. And then from that place, remember that— don't remember your past self, don't remember your lower, lesser self. Remember the highest version of you. And from that place, ask her, How would I— how am I supposed to feel if I'm in this embodiment, in this identity? What are the thoughts that serve me? What are the beliefs that I want to create by repeating those thoughts? What are the emotions that I want to process in my body by engaging with those beliefs? What is the experience I want to have in life? Be it. So my invitation is that you take a moment, and you're welcome to pause me right now. You take a moment and you ask yourself these questions and you write them down. What do I want to think? Or what do I think? What do I believe I'll think when I am there? And then look for evidence of that. Something that— there's an exercise that I was doing with a friend who coaches with Stacey Bayman. Stacey Bayman is fantastic for coaches. And she— my friend was doing this coaching to me of building belief and finding evidence of why the thing that is so hard to create or manifest is true and inevitable. Like, why is success inevitable for me? And she was asking me questions like, why do you think you cannot fail in your business? And why do you think you're going to be able to attract as many people as you're meant to serve in the Faith-Based Coaching Academy? And like, And why is it worth it to pay you to engage in that process and that formation? And the more I search for those ans— well, I didn't really have to look for them, but the more I was able to come up with those answers and give them to her because she was prompting me to look for evidence of what I desire to believe wholeheartedly, the more I gave those answers, the more excited I felt. I'm like, oh my gosh. Like, success is inevitable for me. And so it is for you, my friend. Success is inevitable for you because you not only will have the tools that I am going to give you in these podcasts, in my Faith-Based Coaching Academy if you want to go deeper, but you also have God. And you need both. You need the personal development, you need the tools, you need the awareness, you need to know the thing that's keeping you stuck and what to do about it with the wisdom that personal development psychology gives you. But ultimately, the one who helps you through it is God. It's your faith that holds you up. And I know that all too well. That's why I'm so big about combining psychology and spirituality, because they cannot, they cannot work without each other. You cannot live your faith without doing the personal development work. If you're constantly triggered because you've been betrayed, you've been hurt, you have trauma, you cannot love thy neighbor as yourself. You can't. You can't treat other people with grace and mercy as you're called to because you're constantly being triggered. You cannot live your faith if you don't do the work. If you're anxious, fearful, because yo padezco de los nervios, because mi mamá y mi abuela and everybody, everybody suffers from anxiety in my family, so me too. So I'm, I'm a worrywart. Then you're not walking by faith, you're walking by fear. You cannot live your faith unless You have the tools. Unless you do the work, you can't. But my friend, you can also not do the work without faith. In order to do this personal development work, you need faith. You need faith in God. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, knowing that He's going to support you and guide you and be there with and for you every step of the way. You need to have faith in yourself, your ability to do hard things that you've never done before. You need to have faith in the people supporting you, surrounding you. Like, you need to know that they have your best interest in mind, and you need to have faith in that what they're teaching you or doing for you or supporting you with is exactly what's gonna get you to the other side. And you need to have faith in the process. Being in the middle, in the messy middle, I'm sure many of you have listened to my Messy Middle podcast. Being in that messy middle is hard, and you wanna give up, and you're so tired, ya está cuando, and you wanna have pity parties and complain and all the things. It's okay, all of the above is okay, do it, but stay with it. Stay with it because you have faith. Because you have faith this is just a messy middle, but pain is only the path, never the destination. So if I'm still in pain, if I'm still uncomfortable, if I'm still not successful, if I'm still not healed, if I'm still not being loved, if I'm still hurting, if I'm still grieving, I haven't arrived. Because we know that our destination, the ending to the movie that we are producing and directing is resurrection. That is the ending to our story. We are rising. Our ending is greatness. It's joy. It's the peace that surpasses all understanding. And I know how to get you there. Wisdom that helps us understand why we think, feel, and act the way we do, and faith. Connecting to that divine wisdom, connecting to that courage and strength that lives within us, connecting, my friend, to the Holy Spirit and being one with God. That is our destination. So if you don't feel that you are there, if you don't feel like, I can die today, I'm ready to go home to Papá Dios, if you don't feel that, there is a gap between the version of you, you are being, and the version of you God created you to be. So whether it's improving your relationships, your mindset, growing in your faith, living your purpose, showing up with your gifts to serve those who are assigned to you, or overcoming, rising above adversity so that you may have a story and a message to tell and be an embodiment of hope for those who are where you once were. If, if you are in that gap, if you haven't arrived to your greatness, if you're not a twin, as Ed Mylett used to say, with the higher version of you that is a saint and holy and ready to go back home to God, I got you. Come to the Faith and Wisdom webinar that I'm hosting this week April 29th at 12 PM Eastern. It's a free webinar, and I am going to rock your life by teaching you why, why that gap exists, why you're separated from your best self, from God, and showing you what to do about it. So come to my free webinar. Go to faithbasedcoachingacademy.com/webinar. FW, Faith and Wisdom, so FW, and register for free. Come to the webinar, allow me to rock your life by teaching you what has been revealed to me, because if you know me, you know that my business partner is the Holy Spirit. So everything that I do, I do according to His will, and I do as revealed to me by Him. So I'm excited to teach you this. I'm excited to blow your mind with what is possible and show you some clarity and guidance as to what you're supposed to do so that you can be right now. I can't wait to support you. I'll see you tomorrow at our webinar, April 29th, 12:00 PM Eastern. Have a beautiful day.
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