Stop ignoring problems that have dragged on for years. Project yourself five years forward: would you still hate your job, your situation, your life? If yes, draw a line and act now instead of drifting.
What happens if a man ignores this stuff for five years? And again, you could make it 1, 3, 5 years. My view is, when stuff's going on in your life that you're ignoring and pretending, I call it going ostrich and burying your head in the sand. To be honest, it's easy to ignore it for another week or three weeks or six weeks, if that makes sense. But my view is to try and cast your mind out further and say, you know what? This job you fucking hate, yes, you could do it for another two months, three months, whatever. But a year from now, five years from now, are you going to still be there? And if you say no, not great, that's kind of a. I don't know what you call it. A stake in the sand or a line in the sand. For me, that's when you say, right, what are you actually going to do about it? Because for so many people, they say they're going to do stuff and they do fuck all.
