Short, reflective dialogue about trust in relationships arguing that what you withhold from the world reflects what you expect to receive. The speakers suggest using a simple prompt—asking what the other person needs—to deepen interpersonal connections.
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I think that trusting goes deeper into yourself than anywhere else. And what you're withholding from the world is what you want from the world. So the thing that you think that the world is withholding from you, you're actually withholding from the world. It's a really beautiful kind of mirror for what you're putting out there.
Yeah. So to me, in the context of that trusting thing, with external relationships, we're often looking for that person to let us down. As you talk about, we're actually almost looking for that person. The one thing I do is just very, very simple. But it's. If you picture any relationship in your life that you would like to deepen and just ask yourself one question. What does that person. Not you, what does that person need to do?