A speaker argues that losing your old friends after a major life change is actually a sign of genuine transformation. When people stop texting and inviting you, that's proof the old version of you is gone and your new self doesn't fit their world anymore.
And I hope that God changes your life so much that when you come back, people come expecting you to be who you were. But when you show up in a different form, they get frustrated. Let me show you, some of them already told you they don't like who you changed into. They don't text you no more, they don't call you no more, they don't invite you nowhere. That's their way of saying, we don't like you no more. I don't like who I was when I was around you. I don't like what I became in your presence. I don't like the conversations we used to have. Thank you for rejecting me because you proved to me that I actually did change.