This is a YouTube video titled "Overcoming People Pleasing: A Guide for Coaches" containing a monologue by Jack Butler recorded in 2025. The content focuses on coaching advice about overcoming the tendency to please others and the importance of setting boundaries and speaking truthfully to clients.
People pleasers, people who are recovering from people pleasers start to try and be liked. Even though the advice goes, build no like and trust, but draw a line in the sand and be okay with people not liking you. That is counterintuitive. Subconsciously, there is an incongruency. So if you're constantly trying to be liked, then you're trying to please people who you've never even met before. When the reality is, especially as a coach, you likely have to share things to your client that they don't want to hear. That's part of what it means to be a good coach is to speak to people's potential, not to the garbage. To.
