This is a YouTube video titled "Relationship coaching - how success is the worst teacher" containing a monologue or talk recorded on July 28, 2023. The speaker discusses the value of hiring a divorced woman as a relationship coach, emphasizing that her personal experience with failure provided deeper insights and effectiveness in helping others save their marriages, contrasting with those who have had only successful relationships.
We hired a woman who was divorced, and mostly we hired a woman who was divorced to help us not get divorced, basically. And people would be like, wait, wouldn't you hire someone who's had a very successful marriage? And, you know, I'm sure there's very great relationship coaches out there who do have successful marriages, but this woman has been through it and she knows and she's worked with thousands of couples at this point. And it was like, it was such a cool when I did that. And it had no like the. To hire her had no. When knowing that fact, no effect on my decision. It was like how she connected with us, what she would work on with us, all those other things that mattered so much more. And she ended up helping us save our marriage. So it's like, just because that didn't work out for her didn't mean she. She learned more from that quote unquote failure help and will help other people save marriages more than someone who's had a hunky dory easy marriage and been great, you know, so it was, it was just such a mind like, whoa, this is relates to coaching. So.
