A speaker reflects on personal awareness and emotional behavior, using metaphors about people-pleasing and how small changes shape your life. Recorded July 17, 2023.
But when what I realized was that I was doing certain things in certain ways so that it felt like it was handled but wasn't really. It's like the little girl who's really angry but is people pleasing so that no one else is upset around her but looks like she's cheery and well mannered and so I was cheery and well mannered in some of those areas of my life and only to realize that there was some digging to be done and I was like well huh. That's, that's, that's good to know but it, it gives you a, it gives you an opportunity to live life differently when you have awareness. If you don't have awareness making a change is really tough because you don't even know what could move the needle and all it takes is a little hinge to swing a big door. It doesn't take much to make a door I've seen little tiny hinges, really big doors and I'm like wow, like that tiny little thing like.