A short motivational YouTube monologue by Chad Silverstein (uploaded May 14, 2024) emphasizing the importance of discipline — specifically resisting impulses and vices — to achieve goals. He argues that awareness, persistence, consistency, and external accountability (a truth-teller) help overcome addictions or habits (e.g., phone use, food, substances), and that high performers proactively remove unhealthy behaviors.
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I think one of the strongest disciplines any leader can build is the discipline to resist impulse. It's so important to be able to conquer yourself. If you can conquer and resist your own impulses, your own vices, whatever it is that you struggle with, you can accomplish anything. You can overcome and really crush any goals that you're going after. Because when you're met with that resistance, you're able to overcome it. Because there's nothing harder than being tested yourself with whatever it is that is. The hardest things for you to abstain from. Some people will be food, shopping, could be any substances that you shouldn't be doing, drinking alcohol, whatever it is. For you to be able to resist that and know if something is a problem, and then being persistent and being consistent, and if you happen to fall, you get back up. I think that discipline is key for anyone. And I think everyone could find something in their life that they need to resist and something where you need to obviously be very persistent in doing so. And I think having a truth teller and having someone that you can have hold you accountable is key. And you can't run from it. You can't hide from it. It's not going anywhere. High performers know this, and they get busy closing those gaps, and they do things that are healthy for them, and they extract all the things that are bad and unhealthy, and they get rid of them. And sometimes that's really hard for people. And for other people, that might be a little bit easier, but everybody's got something. And unfortunately, today, people don't see a lot of their addictions as a problem, because maybe it's something that's not socially such a bad thing. It's accepted. And I think everyone could probably relate to being addicted to your phone and being able to resist something like your phone, especially when you're with your family or a loved one. You know, people always talk about how it drives them nuts when they're at dinner and they can see their families and kids sitting at the table with their phones. But you know how many people themselves are saying that and doing it at different times? You have to be able to have some awareness, call yourself out, kick your own ass, and resist that impulse and be very persistent with it.
