Day 34: Mistaken identity...

It's a scary thing when people identify who they are with what they do. That's why everybody wants to be able to say, you know, something really cool and sexy about their job. You know, what do you do for a living? You know, they want to say I'm in technology or I'm in real estate. That's not who they are. It's, they're associating who they are with what they do. And you have to be careful. There's consequences to doing that. You don't even know who you are if you associate yourself that way. And what you do doesn't define who you are. So I think depending on how you answer that question, tell me about yourself and what you usually lead with. I am, you know, whatever it is, you know, is that something that will sustain over time? Will you always be that? And having a mistaken identity is, you know, maybe the parents who are still living in the days of being an athlete through their kids lives, you know, they haven't, they haven't played a sport in over two or three decades and they still see themselves as a football player and you know, they're not, it's mistaken identity. You might have the mentality, but you're not a football player anymore. So you know, getting clear on your identity is important and getting clear if you have mistaken identity is, is probably more important.