Chad Silverstein calls it oneness: feeling whole and complete at work. He retired from people and tasks he didn't want, learning to say no and focus on what he's actually good at. It took time and isn't perfect, but now he mostly does work he loves.
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So how would I describe oneness? I would say you feel whole, you feel complete. You definitely feel a sense of being content because you don't hate what you're doing and who you're doing it with. I'll never forget I was at a practice with a bunch of executives, and I heard someone say they want to retire. And we all laughed because we knew this person wasn't going to retire. But he said, I'm retiring from people I don't want to work with, and I'm going to retire from things I don't want to do anymore. And on that day, I made a commitment to myself that I'm retiring. And I have. I have. I've made a conscious decision to not work with people I don't want to work with. And I'm done doing things I don't want to do. It doesn't mean it's perfect, and it doesn't mean there's not times where I get caught. But for the majority of my time, doing what I love and I'm within that unique ability of what I love and what I'm good at doing. And I say no to everything else. And it took me a long time to get there. But to me, that's oneness when it comes to me and my work.