Chad Silverstein explains how your beliefs about pain shape your entire response to it. If you decide beforehand that hardship teaches something or serves a purpose, you stay calmer when it hits instead of reacting from panic. Pre-loading your worldview about suffering transforms how you handle loss.
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There's something really powerful that happens when you have a very strong belief and your worldview will include something about what you believe about going through hard times and being able to embrace, you know, difficult— call it suffering, whether it's alone or whether it was with your family. I mean, you know, no one's immune to it, and at some point you get hit and Having the proper mindset will then guide you through those moments, and those moments are transformational. Those are the moments in life that really have the ripple that, you know, depending on how we handle it and respond to it, will dictate which path we take. So being able to have that mindset and training yourself, depending on what your belief is about why bad things happen, why hard things happen that we don't understand, it's important because you could have such a positive mindset and attitude about it that when it happens, you don't react the way everyone thinks you should react. And you may surprise yourself because, you know, if you believe everything happens for a reason, it doesn't mean you're not going to mourn a loss. It doesn't mean that you're not going to be sad for a tragedy that happens, but you'll have more meaning behind it, and it'll help bring calmness to you by making sense of it in your world and whatever that means to you. Being able to get clear on what you believe about pain and suffering, tough times, that should be included in your worldview. Preload how you want to respond to things that maybe you don't like thinking about, but that you probably should because it's inevitable that something's going happen at some point, um, that is hard to deal with. And just saying, I'm just going to deal with it when it happens, is probably not the best solution for that. And it's definitely worth investing a little time thinking about.
