A short conversational excerpt from Christian Polk's YouTube video about selling to wealthier prospects while feeling inexperienced or "broke." The speakers discuss how perception — especially when speaking to older or higher-net-worth individuals — affects interactions: key points include that perceived timidity (hesitating to interrupt), visible flinching, or atypical social cues/tonality can signal a mismatch between how one feels and how one appears, and that letting those perceptions change your approach is what makes interactions different.
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My demographic has switched to speaking to more older people. Especially I'm on camera so they can see I'm quite young. Is that something.
It's all like, the.
Perception of it, right? Like in your head. Okay. If you're a bit timid interrupting, then it probably would be an issue.
Now, if you.
Do anything to the extreme, we're talking about, like, social cues or tonality. Like, if you do anything outside of the normal, it can.
Become a problem.
Even with, like, the prospects you're very comfortable doing it with.
But you.
Have the skill set, you know when to interrupt. The only way it would be different for the higher net worth or those types of individuals is if we allow that to then affect how we're having that conversation or affect how we're showing up to that conversation.
You do halfway, right? Like, you know, you should interject and you kind of do it.
I flinch.
Yeah, you flinch, right? And then they're like, sums up like it's. It's not going to be conscious, but subconsciously.
They'Re going to notice, like, there's a separation, right, between like, how you're coming across and how you feel on the inside. So, yeah, it's not flinching.