"I need a 3rd party" vs. $8M Closer

So the investment is going to be $8,000.

I want to speak to a third party about this. I am super emotional right now, so I just need someone to, like, ground me and just tell me if it's the right decision.

Dude, just first and foremost, just take a breath. Ultimately, whether you buy or don't buy, my life is not going to change at all. I'ma still wear the same shoes. I'ma drive the same car. Whose life actually changes if they invest in themselves and they actually start making more money?

Of course.

At this point, what's actually coming up for you that makes you feel like, okay, I just need to speak to someone else?

I just need to come to my senses and just have someone just give me some sort of confidence.

Where is the lack of confidence coming from?

I don't know.

Did you come in here to stay the same or did you come in here to change?

To change.

So if we expect ourselves to get the same type of results that we did before, before we actually changed, like I would be the first one to tell you, yeah, don't do the program. But if we're coming into like the actual program, invest in ourselves, looking to make a change, why would you be planning for failure? Why would you go into this thinking you're not going to be able to get the results?

I'm just trying to keep myself safe from doing something I don't need to do.

Hold on, man. You getting to the point where you can make the money you want to be making, travel, do all the things that we talked about. Like, dude, is this journey just going to be safe?

I would say so.

So what the fuck are we talking about? Like being safe, man? What is the safe route gotten you the past 2 years?

Only making $3K a month.

Is that route worth continuing?

No.

Well, how are we ever going to break out of that if we don't get uncomfortable and get out of our safety zone?

I don't know.

We're going to have a hard time. So it just comes down to, dude, what if you keep actually just valuing safety over everything else and you never actually invest in yourself? What happens if you keep on just, you know, living with your sister and never actually are able to move out and do the things you want to do?

I'm not going to reach my full potential.

Some people are fine with that. Like, be real with me, dude. Like, what's the actual day-to-day impact? Like, knowing you haven't reached your full potential because you valued safety over everything else?

Probably going to end up in a retirement home in the same old city I grew up in.

Pause, dude. Like, you're a super young dude. We're talking about retirement home. Like, what happens if you wake up tomorrow and you look in the mirror knowing that you didn't bet on yourself because you value safety over everything else?

I'm gonna have to go back to college and just live a regular average life.

Well, how is it gonna feel looking in that mirror?

Terrible.

That feeling is absolutely a choice. Is that something you're willing to choose, that feeling, or do you wanna move away from it?

I wanna move away from it.

So what do we have to do to make sure when we wake up tomorrow, we can look ourselves in the eyes and we know we're at least doing something? What do we have to do?

Just gotta do it.

Are you sure?

Need to do something uncomfortable here.

Let's do it, man. Lemme get your card info.