A short spoken anecdote by Simon Sinek recounting a United States Marine Corps example to illustrate the importance of immediate ownership and accountability. The central claim: leaders must take responsibility for actions at the time they occur (not only when caught) because trust—not likability—is the essential currency in high-stakes teams; failure to own mistakes erodes trust and can cost lives.
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I'll tell you a story from the United States Marine Corps. I had an opportunity to visit OCS in Quantico, Virginia, and the colonel in charge of OCS was supposed to give me a briefing on what they do at OCS and how they train their officers, et cetera. And he showed up late. And I. And I know you know this, but Marines don't show up late ever. And he walked into the room and apologized and said, I'm sorry, we've had an incident on base. So, of course I was curious. I said, what happened? What happened? He said, well, it's serious enough that we're considering throwing one of our Marines out of ocs. Throwing one of our Marines out of the Marine Corps. So I'm thinking, oh, my God, what crime did this person commit? I said, what'd he do? He said, he fell asleep on watch. And I said, that's it? He fell asleep on watch in the woods of Virginia, and you're going to throw him out of the Marine Corps for that? That's a bit harsh, don't you think? And he said, no, you don't understand. When we asked him about it, he denied it. When we asked him about it again, he denied it again. And only when we showed him irrefutable proof did he say, quote, I want to take responsibility for my actions. He said, the problem we have is you don't take responsibility for your actions at the time you get caught. You take responsibility for your actions at the time you perform your actions. He said, we have another Marine that fell asleep. He admitted it. We punished him, but we have no problem with him. And then the colonel went on to explain. He says, you have to understand, if I put this kid in a leadership position in a combat situation, and his Marines think for one minute that he's trying to protect himself at the expense of others, if he's trying to just advance his own career, trust will decline, trust will break, and people will die. And so I started to understand that what it means to lead and what camaraderie means in these environments is. Is that is literally our lives depend on each other. And I don't have to like you, but I do have to trust you. And I think that in. In the. In the civilian world, we confuse those two. That I only trust you when I like you, and if I don't like you, I don't trust you.
