Simon Sinek argues companies teach technical skills but ignore human ones like listening and empathy. He shows how a performance warning can become a genuine conversation when a manager leads with curiosity instead of judgment, shifting how employees feel seen and trusted.
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Companies tend to do a very good job of teaching their employees the job they need to do. There's a lot of opportunity to do better in teaching people how to listen, how to have a difficult conversation. That's a hard one. These are, these are human skills. How to have empathy, how to replace judgment with curiosity. And humans have to work really hard to be good at being human. We are not naturally good at it. And so starting with empathy is a great, is a great entry point. And I'll give you an example of empathy at work. Here's a pretty normal situation: "Hey, your performance is down for the third week in a row. We've had this conversation before. If you don't pick up your performance, I don't know what's going to happen." Fairly normal. Let's replace that with empathy, right? "Hey, your performance is down for the third week in a row. We've had this conversation before. Are you okay? I'm worried about you. What's going on?" You may not get an answer immediately, because especially if something's vulnerable, they may not want to share immediately. That feeling that somebody actually cares about me as a human being, not just as a performance machine, goes a long way.