A framework for resilience built on three personas: the Artist, who zooms in or out to choose perspective; the Author, who imagines your 80-year-old self asking what story you'd be proud to write; and the Alchemist, who finds hidden gifts in hardship. The speaker illustrates with the example of losing four limbs and reframing it as a story of growth.
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Is there something you say, a mantra, that helps you change the mindset? I mean, you kind of alluded to it, which is not what did I lose, but what do I gain? I have like 3 characters that I can play in various different situations, and I call them the artist, the author, and the alchemist. So the artist is somebody who paints perspective. If you think about it like a photographer who can zoom in or zoom out of a particular situation. Anyone has the choice to be able to make that decision at any point in their life. You know, today is another day you didn't get an email telling you you have bowel cancer, right? It sounds fucking ridiculous on the offset, right? But, but today is that day for you and I both. You know what I like about it is it works because it's specific. Usually when something bad happens in somebody's life, you usually get the problem of like, you have your health It's too hard to appreciate something so broad and general, right? Yeah. Another one would be the author. Yeah. So whenever I had a decision to make and it was really tough, I would project myself into the future when I was 80 years old, and I would think, if this was a story that I was writing and I was the protagonist, what decision would I want the main character to make? Like, what kind of story would I be proud to write? The last one would be the alchemist, which is what I live my life by. And the alchemist is somebody who turns horrible situations into gold. What is the hidden benefit from some horrible challenge that's happened to you? For me, losing 4 limbs sounds like a bit of a shit sandwich to almost anyone who reads that story. But when I sit here and tell you it's the best thing that ever happened to me, and even you identify it as a gift, all of a sudden it becomes a really good story. And that's what The Alchemist does.
