Codie SanchezFounder @ Contrarian Thinking

The BIGGEST LIE I got told about marriage #shorts

3 Jul 2022 · 1 min

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Codie Sanchez says the biggest lie about marriage is that it's hard. She and her husband keep two rules: never complain about each other to others, and talk every single day. Weekly date nights and choosing not to be miserable matter more than fate.

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Codie Sanchez

July 3, 2022

1) Not to complain about each other to anyone else. 2) To talk at least once a day.

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The biggest lie I got told about marriage, that it was hard. I actually think marriage done well is a superpower. I've been married to my husband now for years. And there are two things we promise to never do. One is bitch about each other to anybody else. Two, to not talk at least once a day. Wait until you have kids. Wait until X years. None of that has to be true. My grandparents have been married for over 50 years. My parents have been married for 30 years. I know people are going to hate this video, but I was married before and divorced and. And I think I made that choice. You know, we bought into the hard lie. We didn't do dates every single week. We didn't talk every single day. We thought it was funny to put each other down. It's not. Now my husband and I have incredible time. We have date night every single week. It's a blast. The truth of the matter is that miserable is a choice. And you don't have to choose it in marriage or anything else in your life.