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Dave Kashen argues that blaming yourself keeps you stuck, while taking responsibility with curiosity opens the door to real change. The shift from shame to asking what you can learn transforms how you grow.
Dave Kashen argues that blaming yourself keeps you stuck, while taking responsibility with curiosity opens the door to real change. The shift from shame to asking what you can learn transforms how you grow.
One of the biggest lessons I've learned is the difference between self-blame and responsibility. For years, I thought beating myself up was a form of accountability, but it actually was just a way to avoid deeper learning. True responsibility involves letting go of the story that there's something wrong, so there's no one to blame, and you just get curious, how did I create this? And that shift from blame to responsibility opened up a whole new level of growth for me, and it can for you too.
