In this brief confidence tip, the speaker advises viewers to order the dish they truly want when dining with a group. He explains that people lacking confidence often go along with others' choices without speaking up. By explicitly stating a preference—such as requesting honey chicken—the speaker argues that you appear more confident and assertive, reinforcing a stronger self‑image.
Confidence tip number 130. Order what you actually want. If you're out with a group of people and you're all ordering various dishes and people say, well, let's have this and let's have that, people who are lacking in confidence will tend not to speak up and they'll just say, oh, that's fine. Order what you want. Stand up for yourself and say, I would like the honey chicken, or I'd like whatever. Say what you want. It makes you look confident and it makes you look strong.
