Being bull headed is keeping you from what you want

Hey, hey, hey, beautiful heart! What's vibing? How are you doing today? Welcome back to my channel for those of you returning, and a big shout out to my subscribers. Thank you so much for sharing your energy with me. I truly appreciate you, and I bless each one of you in the presence of the Christ with health, wealth, love, and abundance. For those of you who are new, welcome, welcome. I am Dr. Denae Arias, the Awakening Doctor. I am a metaphysician and master mindset coach. All right, you guys, let's take a peek and see what is going on in the energy right now. I know that there's a lot of intense energy going around. So, all right, we're starting off with being bullheaded. This, you know, sometimes it's good to be bullheaded if you're not coming from ego. There is a complete different vibration. This bullheaded is more of an ego pride, stubborn ness going on. This is like digging your heels in and saying, nope, I'm right, I'm right, I'm not budging until this, this, and this. That is absolute self-sabotage, and it does set you up. Um, so here's the thing, there is a time and a space to be bullheaded, and this is coming right out of a bull's mouth. For those of you who don't know, I am a Taurus Sun, so I understand, you know, about being bullheaded and stubborn, um, and the difference, the energetic difference between the pride and ego stubborn that keeps you stuck, that ends up bringing more of what you don't want to you, versus the higher vibration bullheaded stubbornness which is different. That is an inner knowing. It comes from peace, love, and knowing. It doesn't have any angst against it, or, well, if this person does this, I'm doing it. It's none of that. It— that is, I know that I know that I know that what I feel I make real, what— that my words and my thoughts create images, but my feelings activate those images. So I am going to be very mindful of the inner dialogue and the landscape going on. So that's the difference there. Then we also have Balance Your Energy. How appropriate. So for those of you that are more on the, um, other side of the being stubborn and bullheaded, um, a lot. This comes from doubt and fear and control. That is what, um, you're being asked to balance at this time, because this energy feels as if you are, uh, more in the habitual monkey mind, that stubbornness All right, let's see. Let's get into some tarot, see if we can't get some advice. That was way too many. Okay, this actually flew out in reverse. Six of Pentacles in reverse. This is about unequal give and take and reciprocity. Seven of Swords and Temperance in reverse. Yeah, these three are literally backing up this. So there is, um, feels like you know what needs to be released. But you're very defensive about it. Um, notice how we have balance your energy here, and Temperance is all about balance, and it's in reverse. This bullheaded is The Seven of Swords is backing up this being bullheaded card. The Six of Pentacles is telling me that the unfairness of life, um, the inner dialogue could be how you've given so much, or, uh, you're always the one giving, giving, people take from you, um, that type of energy, that recycling of that story on the internal is keeping this, keeping you out of balance. It's got your attention, guys. I know it's not easy to make the switch, but it is absolutely doable. Um, Queen of Wands and the 10 of Pentacles. This Queen of Wands energy I'm feeling, it's— it is more of you being in this bullheaded and out of balance type of energy. Um, the Queen of Wands It can be an unstable energy depending on what that internal dialogue is. And given these other cards, this is saying, um, yeah, somebody is digging their heels in. This is a continuation of yesterday. Okay, you are absolutely capable of reaching this 10 of Pentacles. You're not able to see it right now because the energy is out of balance. Let me get a couple more here. You know, we are on the back end of this full moon. We're heading towards a new moon. A lot of energy, a lot of light has come in. When we have this extra light coming in and you're doing this work, there is a time for rest. A lot of times we end up making things worse for ourselves because we get into this unbalanced energy up here in this bullheadedness that I have to work harder, work harder, do, do, do. As I was saying yesterday, to get things done, that inner drive of comparing. Here's another thing altered ego does— compares. Wants you to compare yourself to other people. Hear me, hear me, beautiful heart. This is not a race. It is not a competition. You're not here to compare yourself to me, to your friends, to anybody. The only person you need to be comparing yourself is to you— who you were yesterday, who you were a month ago, who you were a year ago. You are the— you— the only competition you have is with yourself, and that competition should be striving to be better than you were the day before. Not striving to, um, be, you know, um, whatever it is, overnight success when you're sitting in out-of-balance energy and sitting in the depths of the diaper. That is an alter ego trap that sets you up and makes you feel shitty. It makes you feel worse because you're setting unrealistic goals that you're not going to reach. So go easy on yourself. This is inch by inch. There are going to be days that are more intense than others, especially as you are moving through and going up this mountain. Um, You are right. I know this is going to trigger some people. You are right where you're supposed to be right now on your path. Why? Because everything has higher purpose, even the painful stuff. There is purpose to that. Pain is a signal that there is a limiting belief playing out. So for those of you that are feeling overwhelmed and really resonated with yesterday's reading about do, do, do, needing to do this, or comparing, hear, hear this message. There are times when we get like this where we've put our heels in, we're out of balance in the energy, and there's this drive that's saying we're not enough, we're not doing enough, things are passing us by, yada yada. That is monkey mind throwing lies at you because you are getting close to your breakthrough. You have to— this is where I'm saying shift that ego pride matrix stubbornness that has been kicking your ass, switch that to that inner higher knowing stubbornness of I am not giving up. Today I may feel like shit, but I am not giving up because tomorrow's a new day, and at any moment I can become a vibrational match for all that I want. Any moment my world can change for the better. Here's what do you need to do to help that change for the better come in. You have got to change up your words and your thoughts. Again, I know, I know it's not always easy, especially if there's other factors playing in, um, you know, which I, I'm not going to go into all of that. For those of you that are really feeling the depths of overwhelm and despair. And if you're feeling like you can't go on— this is a side note, this isn't going to be for everybody— tarot, um, tarot readings, things like this are not substitutes for medical help or therapy. That is a blanket statement that it needs to be said. So for those of you that are, you know, in that, in that bucket of really wanting or needing advice or help, but you're dealing with some of the deeper entrenched thoughts, you need to reach out to the appropriate medical services. Um, not to a philosopher such as myself. Metaphysicians, we practice a philosophy. We are not medical doctors. Uh, so you do need to reach out. That information is in the description box below, um, for suicide prevention and awareness. And there is also, uh, the new 988 number that you can call to get help. Um, so there's that. For others of you that are not in that area, that are not needing those services, you are ready to do the inner work. You're ready to be self-responsible. Seven of Cups here, it can be illusions and all of that. This is literally saying seeing in this reading, this energy, that no matter what you choose to pick a direction to go in, something to focus on or work through, no matter which one you pick, it will get you to the next phase. There isn't— it's not a right or wrong situation, or if I make this decision, it's right. If I make this one, it's wrong. Choices are all about experiences, so no matter what you pick, it will be an experience. Monkey mind likes to get us, um, into this bullheadedness and out of balance within our energy, our mind, and our emotion, so we don't make a choice. We get paralyzed, that analysis paralysis, and we end up just either sitting on the sidelines or in that hamster wheel not making a choice because we're too afraid to make a choice. That's where this energy comes in. Pick a, pick a direction, pick an experience to have, show up for yourself., and you will get this Wheel of Fortune turning in your direction. Let me get a few Waikau cards. I know this message isn't going to be for everybody, but the majority of you, there should be something in here that you could, um, take and apply. Again, this is a general reading. It is not specific. This is the collective energy, what is going on. That means that the collective— some of you may be feeling this a little bit, some may be feeling it to more of the extreme. What was I saying in the beginning? Words qualify, feelings activate. This is so appropriate. Everything is always working out for your highest good. Yes, even the shittiest of days, even the shittiest of experiences. It all has higher purpose, and it is always working out for your highest good if you allow it to, if you choose it to. How do you allow and choose it to? You go on record every day and you say, I am open and allowing everything to work out for my highest good. I am no longer on record for shitty experiences. I do not align with that. Now, when you say that, you need to follow through and be self-responsible to curb those thoughts and those feelings that align with the struggle. Do not hold on to anything. Let everything flow. When we hold on to things that really don't serve us, we constrict the energy. This is when we are out of balance with the Ten of Pentacles, with what we want to bring in. Guys, the overall message for today is be gentle. Go easy on yourself. Send yourself some loving thoughts and vibrations. If you were one of the ones that are feeling exhausted and overwhelmed and all of this, we can exhaust ourselves with just overthinking and being emotional there. And I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that. I'm saying it can be very overwhelming. When you are tired or overwhelmed or are in an over-emotional state, that is not the time to make big life decisions. That's the time to take a rest, create some space between yourself and all the stuff that's going on so that you can Bring in that strength. Allow that strength to come in. And how does that come in? You need to rest. You need to take care of yourself. Drink more water. Eat more high vibrational foods. Put on Solfeggio. Google on YouTube different Solfeggio frequencies for whatever you're going through. All right, so let's end this with some Moonology. Your commu— commitment is being tested. It is your commitment to yourself. Hold your vision. Your hard work is paying off. The thing is, we tend to— this is a human habit— we are so quick to judge ourselves and punish ourselves for what we think we're not doing right, blah blah blah. That is monkey mind's job. It will never give you the praise you deserve. It doesn't want you to see that your hard work is paying off. Do not give up in the 11th hour. Do not give up until your Ten of Pentacles comes through. It is always darkest before the dawn. All right, beautiful heart, I am going to leave that here. I hope you found something within this message. As always, I am sending you oceans and oceans of love from my heart to yours. Namaste and Adonai. Bye-bye.