Control is keeping you stuck - release into the flow

Hello, beautiful heart. How are you today? Thank you so much for clicking on this video. If you're new to me, I am Dr. Denae Arias, the Awakening Doctor and creator of the lifestyle change Your Cells Are Listening. To my returning Kaleidoscope Gang, hello, hello, hello. As always, I am sending you guys oceans of love and support. All right, let's jump right in and get to this. Love, praise, and gratitude. Glory and grace. Let's see what Spirit wants to say today. And I saw something in here, it's awesome, turned over. Okay, maybe not. We are starting out with your beliefs either give you power or take it away. Yeah, been talking a lot about beliefs and perceptions because beliefs and perceptions really do rule your world. I outpicture everything I think and feel about myself. Absolutely you do. If you don't like what is showing up in your experiences on a daily basis to check yourself. What is your internal dialogue? What are you thinking and feeling about you and your situations, life, all of that? Because that is where it all comes from. And guys, know you are enough. You are, absolutely. I know you've been living a life where you don't feel like you're enough. You feel like you're never chosen. Um, all of those, those human emotions and self-sabotaging thoughts that we have. And that's the process of spiritually awakening, recognizing those for what they are— beliefs and perceptions that only you can change— and then going within and doing the work to make the changes. Happen. All right, let's see. All right, Spirit, all of you and none of me, show me the cards my collective needs to see. Love, praise, and gratitude, glory and grace. I hold my love, praise, and gratitude, glory and grace. All right, Temperance came this way. All right. Okay guys, keep in mind this is a general reading, it is not a personal reading, even though I know most of my readings for you guys do feel personal. Uh, so you know what I say, get in where you fit in, take the energy, flip it, rub it down, whatever you need to do. Um, I just read the energy. You know your life, you know the players in your life, so you fit the energy where it needs to be. If this is— if this reading resonates, don't ever try to take a reading and if it doesn't resonate and make it yours. It's okay if it's not. You don't want to force anything to fit, you guys. All right, Princess of Cups in reverse, Two of Pentacles, Temperance in reverse, and Death. So a lot of past emotions, feeling out of control emotionally, feeling— this kind of goes back to what I was talking about with we outpicture everything we think and feel, that internal dialogue and what you you're believing about yourself. There's the Princess of Cups in reverse. Um, this is young energy, and you know, princesses aren't queens, they're not empresses, they're princesses. They're younger, they're not as mature, not as experienced. So they— it's all about them and what, you know, people can do for them, and that has its place. But what I'm saying is this energy, it's that inner dialogue, you know, where you go when it's really painful. You hear me talk as you go down and clear out the pain and the fear. There you get to that point where there's just this like one knot, one root, and you're right here while you're sitting here. This is an internal dialogue, it's a programming, it started in childhood. I believe one of the other readings this week, this came up as well, and I kind of explained this, that, um, your limiting beliefs about yourself started back in childhood. So if you've been in an emotional state kind of all over the board, um, and you're struggling to understand it, see what it is, and get out of it, know that the root of it goes back to childhood. It's a false perception. It could be something as simple as As a child, you went to put your hand on something like a hot stove that you shouldn't have, but you're a curious little child, right? We all were. You innocently go to touch it just to have that experience and see, but an adult freaks out, doesn't want you to hurt yourself, and they yell or they scream. You get confused, scared, shut down, you start crying. Boom, a programming starts to develop, and it goes a little like this: I'm so stupid, what's wrong with me, blah blah blah, all that stuff, right? So something as innocent as that, a parent trying to protect you or an adult trying to protect you, can create trauma responses in us. Now obviously, if you've had a traumatic childhood. There's more layers there, but I'm just bringing this back down to the basics, um, that we all have childhood trauma. All right, Two of Pentacles, needing to bring into balance, um, I feel like, again, this is going back to perceptions, because this is on, you know, the positive light side. You can see this one is a bit darker, but in this, in the lighter one, there's the dark rays behind it. This is letting me know that there is still some, um, I don't want to say still, there are some financial concerns, abundance, secure, um, abundance, security concerns, those type of things. So we, a lot of, most of us learned lack, we learned scarcity, and then we keep it going. We keep it trapped by our perceptions and our thoughts. For example, let's say you are either on unemployment, disability, Social Security, whatever it is. Uh, it doesn't have to be that, but you've gone through life with this, or, you know, wherever you're at right now, with the mentality of, well, I have limited resources, I have a limited income, I only I'm on disability, I only get this. I'm on Social Security, I only get this. Feel that. And I'm speaking from experience. There was a time that I was on disability, that I was unemployed. And so I get all this. These are things I also had to work out. This is how I can recognize these patterns, uh, But it's your belief in your thoughts. I'm on a limited income. I only get this a month. Well, guess what? You are prophesying that. So you're putting that out into the universe, so that's what you will get back. You will absolutely keep living in that limited space because you're qualifying it and feeling it as limited. It does take a while to come out of that, but this is kind of this with Temperance in reverse, Princess of Cups in reverse, Two of Pentacles and Death here. This is what you're working through. So you could be feeling stressed, anxious, panicking regarding, you know, where's the money coming? How am I going to do this? Yada yada. It starts with your words. Starts internally, and it starts with your perceptions and beliefs. When I stopped saying that and stopped seeing that and started speaking love and prosperity to my bank account, I spoke love and prosperity and put a command and a demand on every penny that goes out, whether it's a bill, groceries, luxury item, helping somebody, it doesn't matter. I qualify that. I command and demand the money have a purpose, and it goes out and it is a blessing. Even if it's a bill, whoever touches this, it is a blessing. And guess what? It has to come back tenfold. So these are other ways to help you get past that mindset. But again, you're an infinite Creator I Am being living in an infinite universe. So if you're finding yourself yourself in lack in any area of your life, you are living a false reality. You're still living in the Matrix, buying into that scarcity mentality. That's what you need to recognize and bring into divine balance. As you do, you're going to clear the way and create a brand new cycle. You know, you can't, um, go out and buy new furniture if you still have your old furniture in the house. Where are you going to put it? You've got to get rid of the old, release it, let it go so the new can show up. It's always in your thoughts and your feelings. It's in your words. You qualify. Okay, so we have Eight of Cups in shadow. Excuse me, guys. And I didn't even bring up my water. We have the Chariot in shadow. We have 10 of Pentacles and 5 of Pentacles not in shadow, so I'm glad to see that. So let's break this down. 8 of Cups qualifying the Princess of Cups in reverse. Technically, this is the shadow side, so it would be The reverse. This is saying that you are staying stuck in your pity party. You're not moving away from it. You're just sitting there, not even— yeah, you may have a hood on, but you're not even with an umbrella, not even looking for shelter. You're just sitting in the emotions and just allowing it, allowing your patterns and stories to keep out picturing in your life the way they always have. Here we have the Chariot in shadow or reverse with the Two of Pentacles. We already talked about this one. This is— look, you're not even looking ahead, you're looking to the side, you're looking back. You're not going anywhere. You're in a desert. Why? Because your attention is on the lack. And what you don't have and what you see as limiting. You bring into balance, get a hold of your stinking thinking around abundance, money, security, lack, whatever it is. You bring that into balance, what's waiting for you? 10 of Pentacles. Ultimate abundance. Hello, do you hear me? These messages have been coming out strong because as a collective, this is the energy going around. Why? Because this is what's held us back for so long. We have to address this, but it's always your choice. Death and rebirth. We have the Five of Pentacles. Look, you're not in reverse. You went into that cathedral. The sun is shining, the doves are there, the help, the resources that you need are showing up for you, but they're not going to show up while you're still in the old energy. And I know I stayed in that old energy for a long, long time, and You know, I would manifest abundance, absolutely, but then, uh, you know, that doubt, fear mentality would creep up and then it would be gone again. You know, that up and down cycle. All right, I'm gonna get this to wrap up this reading. Glory and grace. I pour my love, praise, and gratitude. Glory and grace. All right, Spirit, move away from a difficult situation. The difficult situations are in your head right now. Yes, they're playing out in your experience, but it goes back to your beliefs either give you power or take it away. You outpicture everything you think and feel about yourself. And yes, you are enough. I want to say that this goes along with yesterday's reading, free yourself from your own cage. Okay, I keep hearing these ones, so let's get one of these. And if you stayed this far, thank you. I'm so excited that you're watching this till the end, because you never know when Spirit has a message that'll just pop up. Yep, look, lighten up, lighten up on yourself, for sure. All right, Spirit, Taco Tuesday. Me. What do you want to say to these beautiful hearts? Release control. Yep. What I'm going to say with that is your mind can think up the problem. It'll contemplate the problem or issues it will want to control, think of every possible scenario and outcome so you could be prepared. Honey bunny, that is control. It is human consciousness matrix control. In other words, you're praying and asking God to help you, but you're not removing your hands off the wheel. You're either gonna let God drive or you're gonna duct tape him and throw his ass in the trunk. When you're in control, you've got them in the trunk. So yeah, release that control. That creates doubt and fear, and it literally stops the hand of the divine to bringing you what you want. All right, beautiful hearts, I hope this reading helped. As always, I'm sending you oceans and oceans of love from my heart to yours. Namaste. Bye-bye.