In this video, Denae Arias, PhD, delivers a daily spiritual guidance session set during Virgo season and an intense retrograde period. She begins by framing the listener as a "creator being"—part of the "I Am" race—emphasizing that thoughts, feelings, and words shape personal reality and that self‑love is essential. She warns against judgment, guilt, and shame, noting that these emotions first manifest in one’s own life. Arias then presents a tarot spread (High Priestess, Queen of Cups, Three of Pentacles, Hanged Man, Five of Swords, Five of Wands/Torches) to illustrate a shift in a soulmate dynamic. She interprets the High Priestess as a period of discernment and withdrawal, moving into the Hanged Man’s surrender, while the Queen of Cups and Three of Pentacles signal emotional depth and collaborative growth. The Five of Swords and Five of Wands reveal a toxic, attention‑seeking energy that thrives on conflict, prompting the viewer to set boundaries. She encourages grounding in the King/Queen of Pentacles energy—stability, self‑worth, and water‑sign healing—while acknowledging the lingering Taurus influence despite Virgo season. Arias links these shifts to the ongoing Mercury and Uranus retrogrades, suggesting they provide cosmic support for introspection and personal change. The core advice is to focus on self‑growth, practice gratitude, honor one’s feelings without over‑sharing, and let the other person follow their own path. The session concludes with a heartfelt send‑off of love and blessings.
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Hey, hey, hey, beautiful heart! Let's vibe in. How are you doing today? All right, let's jump in and take a look-see at today's energy. All right, we are now in Virgo season. To all the Virgos out there, Um, we are in an intense retrograde season, so yeah, how you doing out there, babes? You get a little turbulent, like flying the high skies, but it's okay, we shall get through. All right, we are starting out with the Creator. That's right, you are a creator being. You are part of the I Am race. The I Am race is a creator being race, meaning you create your world. How do you do that? By what you're thinking, feeling, and saying. You don't like your experiences, you don't like where you're at right now, you are the only one who can get you out of it, and it starts with how you're perceiving it, what you're thinking about it, how you feel about it, and what you are saying about it. Self-love. If you've got any type of judgment, criticism, guilt, blame, shame going on, whether that's towards yourself or others, guys, know that when you have those emotions, those thoughts and feelings towards somebody else, they're going to play out in your life first. They have to. All right, so, um, I have not been doing love readings. I haven't done them for a while. Um, since this past weekend, the energy is all around, um, and I'm being drawn to do those. So, you know, normally my daily readings are just energy check-ins, see where we're at, what's going on, how you can improve yourself today. Um, we'll start out with that, but I do feel that this has— this is just going to be more of the soulmate saga continuing. Um, yep, the High Priestess, Queen of Cups, Three of Pentacles. Hanged Man. All right, crosswatchers, you are always welcome. Um, I will not be reading this from a crosswatcher standpoint. This is not sign-specific. This is just about the energy and the story. So get in where you fit in, take the energy, flip it, shake it, rub it down, smack it, whatever you need to do. And only if it fits. If it's not your story, it's not your story. However, if it is your story, pay attention. Okay, so I do feel like, um, you are in this High Priestess energy. You've withdrawn. You're very, um— people are seeing you as secretive. It's not that you're secretive. You don't feel like you're being secretive. You are being very choosy and very discerning. You are not giving out your energy willy-nilly. You are not talking about what you're doing, what you want to do, and your plans. Why? Because you've learned this full moon that we just had in Aquarius that created a lot of this turbulent energy. That for you, you saw something during that time period and you said no. You saw something about the other person that you're no longer able to unsee, justify, or sweep under the rug. But at the same time, you have really faced yourself with this interaction or whatever went down. You saw yourself, um, clearly. You saw your patterns, your thoughts, your behaviors. That you have always, um, done, the way you perceive things, the way, um, you take it on. And you're saying, no, I know that if I want change, I have to be the change. You have gotten your emotions under wrap. It's not that you turned them off, you're not running from them, you just looked at them, you've calmed them, and you said, no, you know what, This energy, the way I've been treated, is not okay. And you decided to see this connection in a completely different way. And yeah, there has been some wobbly energy with that. I do feel that you go from this High Priestess to the Hanged Man, you go from the Queen of Cups to the Three of Pentacles. Rarely does this ever happen when I'm looking at a spread that diagonally is the energy connection. In this, that's exactly what I'm seeing. Um, so yeah, there's a bit of waffle in the energy, and that's okay. You are learning on this journey of self-love, guys. It's not linear. It's not A to B, you know. It may look like, okay, I woke up one day, had all this shit come at me, decided, no, I'm gonna level up and pour love to myself and love myself. It can start that way, but that's not how it's going to stay. There's going to be ups and downs. There's going to be pots, pots trap holes, you know, bridges out of order, all of those different things as you traverse this new ground. Um, give yourself credit where credit is due. Even when you're feeling pulled back to the old, you know that the old has nothing new for you, guys. For those of you that have had to walk away or cut people off or pull back from their energy. Stay in that vibration of love where you send them nothing but love and blessings and truly wish the best for them. I know, I know, I can hear some people getting upset about it, but you don't know what they did to me, da da da. Hey, you know what? If you keep rehashing what they did to you and trying to analyze it and make sense out of it instead of just say no, you know what, I can only control me, put that focus on you loving yourself and leveling up, guess what? You are going to bring forth more of that energy. Yeah, look, Five of Torches. You need to ask yourself, this person, this energy I'm dealing with, do they have the emotional capacity to hear what I'm saying, to understand what I'm saying, and to respect my boundaries, or step out of their energy to look and see and have a conversation. And look, another 5, 5 of Swords. Words, actions, fighting. No, you have been dealing with an energy that is selfish, um, whether it's intentional or not. A lot of times they're selfish energy that people operate from simply because they are emotionally immature. This person, this energy that you've been dealing with, likes attention. They don't care if it's positive or negative. As a matter of fact, this energy, when there's conflict, when there's arguments, when there's harsh words, when there's confusion going around, that's how they feel love. They got people engaging in this. They're getting attention. Their ego is being fed. This, it's their mode of operation. This, I feel, is what you really realized, that, you know what, this person likes that energy. This is an energy you don't like. This is an energy that makes you very uncomfortable, ungrounded, unstable. And that's what you're moving away from. In doing so, you have sat yourself on the throne of Pentacles. This is the King of Pentacles. This is very grounded energy. This, this could very well be because when I got the, um, Five of Torches and the Five of Swords, even though those are fire and air energies the energy behind it, that, um, that toxic— they don't care if it's arguing, fighting, lower vibrational energy, as long as you're engaging. And as right as I'm about to say, I really feel this is more water sign energy, and we have the Queen of Cups here. This Throne of Pentacles, this is Taurus energy. Yes, we're going into Virgo season, um, But this is feeling more Taurus water sign energy going on. As I was saying that, look, Agent of Cups comes out. More water energy. Yeah, um, I don't feel you guys are in communication right now. It doesn't mean they're not thinking about you, they are, but it's more How, how can they come back in or get you back in to pick up where you left off? The arguments, the, um, not seeing eye to eye, understanding you, misunderstanding you on purpose. Yeah, you threw down a judgment call, and not in a human habit judgment way. This judgment call that you did was really about you, what you want to grow and blossom, where you want to put your energy. And you've decided you want to put it on you. You want to grow. You want to be stable. You're not thinking about relationships at this time. You are doing you. Stay in that energy. Because that is going to take you far. Um, in Leo season, you really had some eye-opening things about yourself, um, through this Mercury retrograde and Uranus retrograde. Yes, feelings are key. Mercury will get in there and mess up communication and technology and all of that. With Uranus in retrograde, it being an outer planet, and this retrograde will be with us for 5 months, this is the time and the cosmic energy that we're under that you can look at your thoughts, your behaviors, what you want to change about yourself, and have the cosmic backing to do that. Yes, in any moment you have that opportunity to either see it as such with the High Priestess or to fall back into the Hangman which is more— that's Piscean energy here, um, and grasp or attach to the old ways of thinking, being, saying, and doing. Everything is always working out for your highest good, and it is. This time that you're spending on you, investing in you, pouring all your energy into you, is going to pay off big time. All right, beautiful hearts, let me just wrap this up. Um, and you're starting to understand that this whole cycle wasn't about the connection or the other person. It, it was about you and your growth. Practice gratitude. Absolutely. Attitude of gratitude. And guys, this energy, it's not over. This will come back around, but it'll— use this time to focus on you. Let this other person do whatever they're going to do. This is their path and their walk. You have your path and your walk. Honor your feelings. Yeah, but honor them, not share them. All right, beautifuls, hope that helped. As always, I am sending you oceans and oceans of love from my heart to yours. Namaste. Bye-bye.
