SOULMATES N SEPARATION: WHAT THE HE** IS GOING ON HERE? THE TEA IS SPILLED!

Hey, hey, hey, beautiful heart, what's vibing? Dr. Denae Arias, your friendly YouTube metaphysician, here to check out this energy. What the hell is going on with your person? What's going on? The title brought you in, then hey, this is your reading. If you're here, you don't even know how you got here, then guess what? It's your reading. You're here on purpose. There's no coincidences, at least not in my world. So, all right, let's take a peek-see what is going on with your person. Um, feel this is going to resonate with you if you are in no contact or very little contact. Um, yeah, something— things just aren't the same. Been a little turbulent. I feel like whoever I'm reading for, this message is for— you really just don't know. You wanted a new cycle, but you got the same old, same old. So let's keep going here, guys. We've got this new moon in Cancer. Today, as a matter of fact. Um, that's why I wanted to do this reading, because I know there— it has been intense with the energy, emotions, uh, and people are all over the board. You may be feeling like you're all over the board. Hey, I get it. You're not alone. That's why I'm here doing this reading. Let's just see what's going on, because I really feel that, um, a lot of people right now— and I think I talked about this, I don't remember if it was in Cancer's reading or just the general energy reading this morning, they both kind of went hand in hand— but, um, this energy, how It's designed to bring out or bring up issues with relationships and things like that. But what I wanted to talk about or bring up from this morning's reading was, you know, monkey mind, altered ego will create a story, and it's always your version of the story, your analyzing of the story, and all of that. That's just how it goes. But then with energy like it has been, um, probably for the past 2 to 3 months, guys, we've been leading up to this. Um, so for the past 2 to 3 months, the energy has been— it could be really thick at times. Um, I just feel there's been a lot of analyzing, assuming versus really reality, what's going on. And altered ego will do that. Altered ego will start making stories up about the stories, especially if you're in a no contact situation, or your person, um, or you, you know, take it how it resonates. Were going along fine, feeling fine, then all of a sudden the energy switched up and things haven't been the same. Um, is that they kind of stick together. I absolutely love these cards, they are gorgeous, but they do tend to stick together. All right, so yeah, this is interesting. I really feel like there's split energy here, um, meaning You guys are like on totally different vibrations. One of you has been choosing to work on themselves. The other person, I feel, says they are, but yeah, they're really not. Seven of Swords. A lot of deception here, a lot of ego and pride. Um, yeah, there was a Tower moment that came in. I honestly, I'm going to read this from your perspective. I feel like you caused this Tower moment. You knew there was deception, lies. Things really weren't, um, what you thought they were. There's this in and out energy. I feel like this person would come in, this this Knight of Wands. You know, the Knight of Wands, he's— knights are about action anyways, but the Knight of Wands, he's passionate. And if the Page of Pentacles in this deck falls out, good Lord, Lord help me, um, you'll see why if it does. Yeah, I feel like you caused this Tower moment. You, um, this connection really brought up a lot of childhood trauma triggers for you. I feel like it went both ways. I feel like it is for both of you. Um, but you chose to work on yourself. This person, they're not getting honest with themselves yet. You— I feel like you decided you were gonna get out of this cycle. You were not gonna stay in that same energy anymore. You're just like, no. No, no, no, I've come too far. I know too much now. Meaning you're recognizing the energy, you're recognizing lower vibrational energy, this, um, Knight of Wands in and out energy, because you would get yourself balanced. It feels like every time you would kind of get balanced, be okay with the situation, it feels like this person comes in and gives you a different story, meaning this High Priestess in reverse. This person comes in and it's all about this new beginning, and you're ready for it because you're here. You are in this Empress energy. And here's the thing, this is what this Knight of Wands doesn't realize because they're still— they're not really dealing with themselves. Feels like they are really trying to run from their emotions, their feelings. This, um, they're afraid of heartbreak. But they're not being honest. And the more they try to ignore it or run from it, the more they're running right into it. They're breaking their own heart. Um, I feel that in the past this rocked you, but the obstacles, the pain, all of that With this Three of Cups energy, you took the crumbs that they were giving, basically, because I don't feel like they really poured into your cup. I feel like you poured into theirs. But along the lines, at some point you did— this hurt enough, this back and forth. You sat with yourself enough. I feel like you started pulling, um, your energy back, pouring into you. You decided to take a leap of faith and go all in on you. I feel like you closed the door to this energy. I don't feel like there's I don't feel like there's closure here. This isn't over. I do feel with the Knight of Cups here, this person wants to come back in, have a message to tell you. But right after the Knight of Cups, I have the Sneaky Meeky here. And he's looking at the Knight of Wands. Knight of Wands is staring right down into the heartbreak, um, and with this Nine of Swords in reverse, I feel Three of Wands. This person can be at a distance from you. This is my overseas card in this deck, but this is also about, um, taking what you've learned, the areas you're experienced in going in a new direction and using that for your highest good. One of this, um, the wands back here, it's like it's an artist brush or an artist pen. This is somebody who's skilled, who's been around the block a few times, knows what's going on. They're taking that experience and they're going somewhere else. Um, they know that they're going to be victorious, but it's not where they are currently at. I feel that this is you. I feel that, um, yeah, this wasn't easy for you, but you've gotten out of your head. This— you are no longer telling yourself the story. Remember how at the beginning I was talking about go look at the um, today's readings, because it's about the altered ego telling you stories on top of the stories keeping you back from what you want to manifest. It's literally in your own head. Here you're recognizing that and you're saying, no, you know what, I know my value, I know my worth. I'm no longer waiting around for this person, this Fool. Because whoever you're dealing with, this person was a fool. And I know that's normally what this— not what this card means, but in this energy, this person was reckless with this connection, with your energy. Um, and you, you know that, and you're just— you're not here for it anymore. You've done the inner work. You're sitting here like, you know what, if you come correct— actions, words, everything matching— we can have an adult conversation. But without an adult conversation, I don't have time for this energy anymore. I know what it is. I I don't care what package it's coming in, I'm going to return to sender. All right, Spirit, what does this person— what, what message is this person coming in with that isn't the truth? Two of Wands in reverse. They're still stuck. They don't want to make a choice. They don't want to lose you, but I don't see that they want to talk to you either. What the hell? Page of Wands. I knew I felt page energy. There's passion here. There's, um, yeah, they're still in their, their ego and their pride. The Magician in reverse. That fell out on the Page of Wands. You guys are— you're out of their league energetically, vibrationally, emotionally, and mentally. You really are. There is this big divide here, um, and there's a lot of lower vibrational selfish, selfish energy from your person. Here's the thing, where they used to be able to cover it up and kind of hide it before, whatever you have been doing apart from this person, you've leveled up. You're seeing things in a completely different way. You're off on a new adventure. And this energy is stinky, very stinky to you. And here's the thing, I don't feel like you're in resentment or bitter. You're really in this Temperance energy. You are just sending them nothing but unconditional love and blessings. You're just like, I see you, I recognize you. King of Cups reversed. Yeah, you recognize that this person tried to come in and sell you the story that they were this King of Cups, but at the, at their best, because they've always been in this altered ego energy, but at their best it was King of Cups in reverse. Emotionally manipulative, selfish, out for themselves. So they tried to sell you that they were this King of Cups a really good catch, but all they showed you, the way they treated you, was nothing more than page. I do have two knights here, and that's the closest that they came to kings, was being in this knight energy. A knight has one thing on their mind depending on what knight it is, but they're— they come in, they have a goal, they're there to conquer, action, do something, and then they're gone. That's how this person was, um, and I see that they're still in that energy. What shifted is you. You're not in your head about it anymore. You really— you're on a completely different vibration, and it shows. All of their cards are darker, heavier, denser. Yours are lighter, brighter. You've got movement, you've got peace. You are— why are you even watching this reading 19 minutes in? Ask yourself, is that your altered ego? Is that what is— what inner dialogue is playing around inside? And ask yourself, you know, is it your ego? Why am I saying that? Because this person with this Magician in reverse And this Knight of Cups, Knight of Wands, Seven of Swords, and the Pages— sorry, I'm gonna sneeze, excuse me— um, they're manifesting they, they are absolutely manifesting, but they're manifesting from this lower vibration. You're manifesting from a higher vibration. You literally are like two ships passing in the night on completely different seas in the same ocean, if that even makes sense. Um, but if this is your story and you're still listening, then yeah, it makes sense. And so Yes, this person is— they can't run, they can't hide anymore. They have got a lot of karma they need to clear, they need to face. That's what's going on. You've done this work. I feel like this connection, this connection was valid for both of you. And very valuable. And it's how you guys are processing the energy that is different. You, I feel, went head-on and didn't shy away from this. You felt all the feelings, you've worked through, and you have started transmuting that. This person didn't. This person ran. They pushed down. They didn't want to Face Truth. I do feel that, um, this person does have deep feelings for you. I just don't feel they're emotionally mature enough at this stage to— I mean, they're not. They're coming in as a Page, at best, at best a Knight. You're the Empress. You don't deal with knights or pages. You have people to deal with knights and pages. You don't deal with them. And honestly, this is how you're coming across, but you're not coming across in a malicious, resentful way. You're really like, hey, I'm over here living my life, doing my thing. I hold nothing but love for you. I wish the best for you. This connection was amazing even in its darkest time, and you're hoping that they will get to this point, but they are still so wrapped up in altered ego and this Page energy. They're not seeing truth. They have a whole different dialogue going on. Um, So yeah, I don't care what they show you. I don't care what they say to you or not say to you. What they don't say to you is really telling. This person is salty. I feel like when you were at your lowest, when this relationship triggered you, they were nowhere to be found. They were off doing their own thing with other people, having a gay old time, and you chose to level up and boss up in a completely new way. I feel that, um, you really have not been giving a lot of attention or emotions or thoughts to this person. Like, what are they doing? What are they, you know, how are they? What's going on? You want out of this cycle, and you know you have to do something different to get out of it. I feel like you did cause this Tower moment, like I said at the beginning. So what is in store for my beautiful, uh, listener here? What's in store for them now that they've dropped this? Yeah, I'm looking at the 10 of Wands. Nine of Wands reversed, Knight of Swords reversed, and then the Five of Pentacles. Um, when you're starting to feel that lower vibrational energy, or your attention is being pulled to this person, um, and you want to reach out, what have you, And I'm not going to tell you what to do. Everybody has their free will. You do what you need to do. But, um, yeah, see, you're manifesting. They had Magician in reverse. You're manifesting your dreams and what you want. Yeah, they, they're in the Nine of Swords and the Three of Swords energy. They got it. That's Two different decks, they got it. Yeah, so what's in store for my collective in this situation? I feel like you've already called something new in and you're going towards that. I feel like you are sensing this person, you're sensing this lower energy. Yep. Tower and the Page of Swords. Look. The Empress again. Yeah. All right, tell me more about the Magician. Tell me more about— you're manifesting Two of Cups, soulmate love. Tell me more about the Two of Cups. Is this soulmate love with this person, the person on my collective's mind? The Hangman in reverse. I don't feel like you're hung up on them anymore. I honestly don't feel like you're even interested really in them anymore in that way. I feel like, um, I do feel that you have a deep love there. This connection, it is a soulmate type of connection, but you're seeing things from a different perspective now. You— I don't feel like you're taking what they're doing. It's not, it's not fazing you at all. You know it's not about you. You know it's about them. See, you left this Four of Pentacles energy behind. I feel like that's the energy that they're still in, that scarcity, lack, um, wanting to hold on mindset. Three of Wands. Yeah, all right. So overall, you are— I do feel like you're going to hear from this person. They do have a message for you. Use your discernment, because I don't feel that it's going to be any different this time. I do feel that they are Stuck in a cycle. I do feel they're stuck in a cycle, but I also feel that the pressure is mounting. This volcano is going to blow at some point because what you resist persists, and this person has been resisting truth and this connection for a long time. And you're good. You're manifesting love, whether it's this relationship back, this person back, or something better. You are on to bigger, better things. So yeah, all right, beautiful. I hope that helped. I hope that gave you some clarity. I know it was a bit all over the board, but that's how this whole connection has been, right? So, um, you want, you want a better life. They don't really want to really look at themselves quite yet. So do with it, do with it what you will. All right, namaste, bye.