The gaslighting is REAL - Take your power back!

Hello, beautiful heart. How are you? Thank you so much for clicking on this video. I am Dr. Denae Arias, the Awakening Doctor. I'm a metaphysician and creator of Your Cells Are Listening. All right, guys, let's jump in. Let's see what the energy has on tap for for us today. Boundaries. Blessings. All right, Spirit. All of you and none of me. Truth and willpower. Guess we're getting 4 today. That's fine. Happy birthday to all the April Tauruses out there, by the way. All right, so we're looking at Boundaries, Blessings, Truth, and Willpower. Talk about being right on the money with this energy that, um, we have been under. Let's see. Many in the community right now are going through this process of redefining their boundaries, and not only redefining them, but not breaking their own boundaries. In other words, we're— we can be really good at setting boundaries, but reinforcing them or Yeah, reinforcing them. Sorry, my brain just literally stopped. Um, it's a lot of times where we drop the ball. It's self-sabotaging because guess what? We created those boundaries for a reason, but then for whatever purpose, we start to break our own boundaries. When you can set your boundaries and stay within those boundaries with yourself and other people, blessings come in. Why? Because if you're not setting boundaries and honoring your boundaries, you are back in altered ego doing old habitual things that keep you stuck. See, look, this Five of Swords card is perfect for this boundaries, because we'll set boundaries with a person, um, family, whatever, job, doesn't matter. But then what happens? That person, that job, those people, that situation comes in and wants to challenge the boundaries. If you're finding yourself getting back into your head regarding these boundaries you know that's altered ego. If there's any judgment, guilt, condemnation, shame, or blame, it is altered ego at work. And that's letting you know, reinforce your boundaries. All right, you know, Blessings and Truth. I love how this card, she's holding a mirror. And she's holding it up. It's reflecting back to her, her heart. She is getting honest with herself. Yes, it's taking a lot of willpower not to gaslight herself. And what do I mean by gaslighting yourselves? We are great. We are the number one gaslighters in our own life, and we attach to our own stories, and then we start making stories around our stories. Most of it's gaslighting. We're lying to ourselves. What does that look like? It looks like this. If you start gaslighting yourself, you're gonna get into this energy. When you're honest and truthful with yourself, it really is a blessing, and it opens up the flow of energy. It magnetizes to you the desires of what you want, not what you don't want. Six of Cups, Nine of Cups reversed, and Ace of Pentacles. So yeah, this is talking about, um, in this general reading, because these general readings are usually you with you. That's the purpose of me doing those, so you can understand what energy is going on and how you can Take your power back, be self-responsible, and navigate it to your best ability. That's bringing the power back to you versus looking outside of yourself to change things, to get other people to respond, or what have you. That'll set you up every time. So this is saying spend time with your inner child. Go back to that place. That is your foundation, and you need to establish that new foundation. And I hear it all the time, Denae, I've already done inner child work, I've already healed this, I've already healed that. That's great, you probably have done some of the work, not gonna deny that. However, we have a multi-body system. We have to clear all of this energetic trauma, and that's energetic trauma ends up being limiting beliefs that keep us stuck, and we have to clear it on all 4 body levels and get it out from the cellular level at the root where it began. Um, and for my students that are watching this, and you know what I'm talking about because you guys have been reaching out to me saying, wow, I thought I did this work, I had no idea leave a comment, you know, share your little testimony about that, that going in at this level that I take you through is an absolute game changer. Literally, this helps you see where you're, um, self-sabotaging, because we're blind to that. There's no judgment, but, um, this is all about going back reestablishing that trust. You don't trust people because you don't trust you. That's what this is about. Nine of Cups in reverse. This is saying— this to me is talking about the debris energy coming up, that if you're single or you're doing it on your own, or it feels like you're doing it on your own, there's some resentment there. This whole spread is talking about you're not alone. Your inner child, your foundation needs your attention. I promise you guys, you put the work in to rebuilding this foundation with you, you are going to be flying in a completely different energy, that shifting into that feminine magnetizing energy. And it's beautiful, but literally it's a choice. It's a choice that you have to make, and it's not like a one-time choice. Altered ego, monkey mind, is always setting up a trap to pull you back into the old ways. Why? Altered ego was birthed out of the 5 human habits and those lower vibrations. It is at home in the self-sabotage, in the negative. Look at that, feeling like you've got the weight of the world on your shoulders. If you don't take care of it, everything's going to fall apart. This is like a self-martyring energy, and we will stick to it and stick to it. It is something that you definitely need willpower to drop this burden. This is projected energy from childhood. Somewhere in your childhood, you felt like you weren't able to be the child. There was a lot of, um, seeming adult responsibilities put on you. And you had to kind of be the one to make everybody else feel better or make things happen. This card, for me, yes, it is like a lover's card, but this is going back to the Six of Cups and this inner child foundation. This is going back to the root and remembering what unconditional 5D love is, cuz that's what that is, and it starts you with you. All right, let's just get one more of these. Yeah, you've been feeling— this is going to be talking about how you felt in childhood growing up, and some of you may even be feeling that now. Unworthy, rejected, not wanted, um, a burden, not worthy, left out in the cold, black sheep, needing to survive on your own. Those types of energies, that is literally the energy that has been coming up for you to face. And, and when I say face, I'm not— I'm not the therapist that has you sit in your story. Not at all. The work I do, I teach you to tell yourself a new story and release yourself from the old story. You don't need to relive all the trauma to release it. Not at all. Do not hold on to anything. Let everything flow. Where your attention goes, your energy flows. So if your attention is still on these two right here, that's what you're going to bring more in, and you're going to bring that in faster. I also teach you guys that when you're triggered or the shitstorm is going on around you, I show you how to find the positive in that to change that shitnado into a beautiful spring summer day and for it to last. Face everything and rise. Absolutely. This isn't about sitting in your fear, the false evidence appearing real. This is about having that strength and that courage to set those boundaries, the willpower to go in Face your truth so your blessings can show up with ease and grace. Look, self-love just flew out of this deck. Literally, that's what this whole reading is about. So for those of you who are already on the self-love path, this is saying you are right where you're supposed to be. No matter how intense it is, keep going. Your blessings are right there. Keep the faith. No, you have not slipped. No, you're not off your path. For those of you that haven't started this journey of self-love that you know you need to, but resistance has been coming up, you've been gaslighting yourself with all kinds of excuses why you can't and how busy life is or other things that need your attention. This reading is telling you you are the most important thing that needs your attention right now. Everything else can wait. Everything else can be taken care of when you put it into Source's hands and you focus on you. It's like that analogy, um, on the airplane. You got to put your mask, your face mask on first before you put it on your child or your traveling passenger, whoever. Same damn thing. But you've been living a life giving everybody else the oxygen, giving everybody else the energy, giving everybody else the abundance and depleting yourself. Now is the time. Your abundance didn't go away. It's waiting for you to get in alignment with it. How do you get in alignment with it? You choose you. You go inward. You do the self-love. You put yourself first. And this is not in a toxic, egotistical way. For you to heal and go to the next level and manifest the way that you want to manifest, this is what you need to do first. That literally is your answer. And I can already feel some of you going, but, but, but— go back, listen to some of my readings where I talk about the but. That's altered ego, that's gaslighting, that is this energy. As much as this energy wants somebody to come in and rescue it, show it the way, give it, you know, a hand so it could step up. This is also the energy of but, gaslighting, all the excuses as to why they can't. Bottom line, it all comes down to fear. But you got to switch that fear from false evidence appearing real to face everything and rise. Because when you face yourself You are not going to find anything underneath that is too horrible. I don't care what altered ego tells you. You first have to accept yourself so others can accept you. This is what I talk about, the gaslighting. The story you tell yourself about you is completely designed to keep you afraid, to keep you thinking that you're going to be rejected while you're the only one rejecting you. I hope that made sense. I hope that gave you, um, some clarity and some tips and things for you to grab onto and keep the faith and keep moving forward. Your abundance is near, the manifestations are near, but you have to put yourself first. You to have that willpower to go within, give yourself the truth, and really kick up that self-love. As always, I am sending you oceans and oceans of love from my heart to yours. Namaste. Bye-bye.