Today's Vibe: Using your magic and walking away

Dr. Denae Arias reads tarot on a toxic soulmate connection marked by emotional manipulation. The guidance: stay in Hermit mode, focus on your own stability and finances, and practice compassionate detachment. Love from a distance without re-engaging in the draining dynamic.
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Hello, beautiful heart. How are you? Thank you for clicking on this video. I am Dr. Denae Arias, the Awakening Doctor, and I am here to do today's daily vibe. Let's see what's going on in the energy. Yesterday was an intense energy day. Did you guys feel that? Holy moly. So yep, I took the day off. I needed to. All right, we've got Magician Sword, confidence in your magic, and Whale Song, resonating. Grab one more. Eye of the Eagle, Rising Above the Fray. Got some big energies here, and pretty fitting. Like I was saying, yesterday was kind of intense, um, and I know many of you reached out to me to share a little bit of what you guys were going through. And guys, I thank you. I thank you for reaching out. I adore each and every one of you. And just know, even though I don't reply, I can't always reply to everybody, know that I do read the comments, I do read the messages, and I I, I'm always holding space for you guys. All right, so confidence in your magic. Magician Sword. This is like, you can call it Merlin's Sword. It has all kinds of different symbols and geometries on there. This is about, um, having confidence in who you are and what you know. The Matrix taught you to doubt everything about you. It stripped away confidence, and now you're on this journey to regain that. Your gifts are opening up, but more than that, a Magician is wise. They know that they create with their words. Their words put things into action, but what they feel is what magnetizes back to them what they want. So this is about watching, watching your words, making sure you're not saying things that are that have doubt in them. A lot of times we do that. It's like a human habit. It is a human habit. We don't realize it. It's just so part of things we say. For an example, like Murphy's Law, you don't want to keep saying that because what you feel, you make real. So if you're buying into it and focusing on that, or even saying things like that, that's what you're going to get. You're in this process of, um, learning what resonates with you and what doesn't. Not only are you deciding that for yourself, you are releasing what doesn't resonate with you. You are finding the strength in your wings and in your magic to leave people, places, and things behind that you don't resonate with anymore, that cause conflict or chaos or confusion in your life. You're saying, nope, nope, not today, not today, not today, we're not doing this, not today, not tomorrow, no way. Mm-mm, you're done, and you're rising above that. You're starting to see with an eagle eye, with your third eye, following your intuition. All right, all right, Spirit, all of you and none of me, show me the cards I need to see. Oh boy, I was hoping we'd stay away from love, but nope. Here we go. All right, so starting off with the Six of Cups, Eight of Pentacles, the Tower in reverse, Queen of Cups in reverse, Two of Wands in reverse, the Hermit, Two of Cups and Queen of Pentacles. My, my, my, this is interesting. Okay. There's deep soulmate love in this connection, this situationship. Somebody's putting in the work. But here's the thing, I've got 2 people here, 1 person here, 2 people here. There's 2 people falling from being blasted out of this tower. I feel as if, um, I mean, it's Mercury retrograde. The past is coming back. This could be somebody you're in separation with now. It could be somebody from childhood. Take it how it resonates for you, um, but you're focused on yourself, your Pentacles, trying to get into a better place for you. In doing so, you are avoiding Um, this Queen of Cups in reverse energy, I don't like the Queen of Cups reverse energy. It's a lot of, uh, I feel emotional manipulation, um, emotions out of control, acting on emotions. And normally a queen receives, but for me, the Queen of Cups in reverse, she's out of balance and therefore is toxic. Um. Somebody— this Queen of Cups in reverse, um, this energy is also very emotionally closed off. So yes, emotions are out of control inwardly to themselves, but they are emotionally closed off to others. Feel like you're going to avoid this Tower moment. You keep focusing on you, you getting grounded, stable, secure. Mind on your money, money on your mind. Um, and walking your path, not paying any attention to this other person and what they're going through. And that's divine right now because they have to make these choices for themselves. They have to go through this process. You cannot be on that process with them. Because the more that you are— and when you're not letting go, it's dragging you through it as well. It's affecting you emotionally and mentally, and it's a big distraction right now because you've got you to focus on. So while you're focusing on you Being in Hermit mode, doing what you need to do to get yourself to the Queen of Pentacles energy. This person is going to have a Tower moment. They are going through a Tower moment. I feel like, um, they are emotionally manipulating themselves. They, uh, They don't see what they're doing, or I should say they don't understand at the core what's going on and why they're doing what they're doing. They're doing it because they've emotionally shut down and they are addicted to being shut down, being in this toxic energy, um, needing validation from other people, uh, you know, always telling their story of how people do this and do that and how angry they are and frustrated. Stop talking about it, be about it, fix it, do something. But they're not. They're in this Queen of Cups energy in reverse, stuck, not wanting to make a decision. Yeah, they enjoy being in this Ten of Swords energy. You're coming out of that. You are dropping these swords. So, and this— they don't realize it's their own thoughts that are creating the feelings. It's all of this thinking about what everybody's done to them, being the victim, instead of saying, you know what, I'm not what was done to me, I'm what I choose to be. And I'm choosing love. I'm choosing to get out of this. Remember, you're over here at the Eight of Pentacles. You choose you and focus on you. You're showing up as the Queen of Pentacles— solid, stable, uh, you having your shit together. Finances are improving. Um, I feel like you have been going through a time where, you know, even that could have been rocky, or you thought it was going to be rocky. Yeah, see, you're choosing to move forward, heal, and face things. This other person isn't. Um, they're hiding behind this. Look at this, Nine of Swords. This is them in their head. They're upset about this. They have anxiety. There's love. There is a lot of— there is deep love. This is soulmate energy. I mean, I've got the Two of Cups, I've got the Six of Cups. Whoever this reading is resonating for, this isn't going to be for everybody. This is for a select few, but for those of you that this is for Don't look back, because if you look back, you're going to get drawn back into this person's energy. Um, that you're not leaving or walking away as revenge, out of spite, or ultimatums, or anything like that. This is what that person is used to, dealing with that type of energy. You're coming from, hey, I want to work on things. Let's have some conversations. A lot's gone down, but they're not open and receptive to that. You make this person very emotional. This connection stirs up emotions, one they've never felt, and two, that triggers them. But you can't carry this load anymore. You have to work on you, and they have to work on them. Now look, here's my sneaky meeky Seven of Swords card. Liar, cheater, stealer, thief. They're lying to themselves. They cannot get honest with you because they're not honest with themselves right now, hiding behind all these swords and this emotional manipulation while they're saying, you know, they're— they may not even realize that this changes how closed off emotionally they are. They don't want to feel. They don't feel. They cannot see things from your point of view, nor do they want to. That's where the issue is, and you're realizing that. You discovered that in Hermit mode. You also discovered you aren't settling for that. In doing so, guys, you've got a new connection, a new love coming in. Um, could this Two of Cups be this person? Yes, if they choose to go in a different direction. Look, Three of Wands in reverse. We have the Two of Wands and the Three of Wands reversed. Stuck in the mud. So 2 and 3 in reverse, absolutely stuck. Queen of Cups in reverse. This is sinking in quicksand, holding on to their lies, their anxiety, their doubt, because it's all out of fear. Guys, you really need to have compassion for this person. But having compassion doesn't mean you stay. Look, Six of Swords. You are being guided at this time to go in a different direction. It's what's needed right now. It's what's needed for you, and it's what they need, because they need to see what's going on for themselves and pull themselves out of it. Yeah, you're ending this juggling. You're saying no, no more back and forth. Um, because your energy— they find solace and peace and happiness in your energy, and they feed off of that. But that's what's also keeping them stuck, because they get your energy. You think they're going to be able to pull through this time, but they don't. They go back end the cycle. You need your energy so you can heal you. This isn't the time to be giving out your energy right now. This week, stay in hermit mode. Do not engage. Yeah, King of Wands in reverse came out. Do not engage. Um, things are going to be coming at you to try to trigger you um, it could just even be your own emotions. Just don't. Take a timeout this week and focus on your goals and bringing more stability to you. All right, Spirit, let's see. All of you and none of me. Yep. Move. Share the love. Enjoy and stability. Yep. Look at the heart here. I hope you can see this. Oh, sorry, I can't see it, but, um, there's two hands and a heart, and the heart's going up. Move. Let go of this current energy. This current energy cycle needs to end. This person is being triggered. They're, um, they're awakening. Your connection triggered both of you. You're going within, sitting with yourself, actually doing the work. This person does a little bit and then pulls back, does a little bit and pulls back. You are moving through this hurt and heartache at this point. You're— it's— you're not hurting, you're not upset, you're just more like, more like kind of disappointed, like, damn. You know, this could have been amazing. Why can't this person see, you know, this is what they need to do to heal themselves? It's easy for you to see what they need because you've already walked through it, but no matter how much you tell them what it is, they're not going to see it. They have to find it for themselves. This is where you need to stay in love. Don't get upset, don't, um, go into ego or revenge or anything like that. Stay compassionate but detached, because if you don't stay detached, you're gonna get drawn down and it's going to affect your joy and stability, because that is what you're resonating with. That's what you're rising up above. Joy and stability is what you are manifesting, and it's ready to come through. You have to pull your inner energy away from this person. Let this person go work on themselves, figure some things out within them while you focus on you. This cycle, this energy needs to change. I'm not saying you have to walk away from the person or connection. I'm saying you need to detach for now because you're both at a level where you need to grow in your own way. You have already sat in this energy that they're sitting in. You are a few steps ahead of them. They are now at that energy, and I know you've wanted— you, when you were there, wish somebody would have been there to help you. But that would have halted your growth just like it's halting this person's. So overall, it is beautiful energy. Lessons are being learned. You're learning that as you grow and heal, things that you resonate with change. People that, um, you used to resonate with, you may not anymore. That's absolutely okay, and you're giving yourself the permission to believe that and to feel into that and know that it is okay. Yeah, how teachable are you? We are always going to be the students and the teachers, but, um, don't let your pride and ego come up and not let you hear or be teachable, because that's what this person's doing. This person is in their ego. They're telling themselves they're not. They're telling themselves that they love themselves and they're working on themselves. They're not because they're blocked. They start going back into that old self-defeating cycle. They're not teachable right now. They're not able to receive the wisdom. And there's no judgment there. That's okay. We go through that. And there is no set timeline. You need to teach yourself how to detach but still be able to love, but you need to love from a distance and trust the process. Good for you. Stay teachable. You know when altered ego is trying to hold you back. Because that— those thoughts, those feelings and emotions, that energy is judgment, guilt, condemnation, blame, and shame. All right, you guys, I hope this helped. I hope it gave at least somebody some clarity. Thank you so much for watching, and I will see you in the next video. Namaste. Bye-bye.
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