Twin Flames in Seperation: This is a higher love - stop the doubt

Hello, beautiful heart. Welcome to my channel. I am Dr. Denae Arias, the Awakening Doctor. I'm a metaphysician, spiritual mentor. All right, let's get in. I'm here today to do the twin flames in separation reading. Let's take a look, let's see what's going on. I work with a lot of, um, twin flames, and I know you guys have been reaching out. And, um, yeah, it's been a very interesting time for twin flames. Um, it's been rough, but guys, what I want to say is, in that roughness, in that pain, in the anxiety, all of that is designed to bring you back to you, bring you back to divine love, divine source, because ultimately we need to have that within us first before we come into union with our twin. What do we have on the board for the overall energy? Take a chance on love. When we love, our lives are changed forever. Love who you are. You are divine, delightful, and deserving of the wonderful things life has to offer. Wasn't I just saying that? Back to What You Love. Reevaluate Your Desires. Okay, feels like this is the process you have been in, um, reevaluating not only your desires but your definition of love. You've had enough contrast within this connection and, and others in your life that you know what 3D love feels like. You know what ego-based love is, um, and it's not true love. It's not, it's not authentic love. It's Matrix love, 3D love. Because it's rooted in the 5 human habits: judgment, guilt, condemnation, blame, and shame. Um, and all of that breeds doubt and fear. So these connections come into our lives so we can essentially have a safe space to walk through this with, another person to walk through this with. Even though I know, I know, I hear you guys, it can feel very alone at times and very painful. What I'm saying is these painful alone times, the journey is designed, that's when you are to look within and grow, give that love to yourself first and grow. As you do that, guys, we're all attached and connected by energy. Time, space, distance— that means nothing. That the altered ego and 3D can talk about that all day long in the excuses of, you know, there's distance between us, physical, whatever. 5D unconditional love. There we know there is no distance, there is no time, we are all one. And that's why this journey is so much about you with you first. This connection and this person is the catalyst to trigger you trigger this deep awakening, this deep soul search. It's a mirror. It's, it's the mirror that you can't hide your reflection. It's going to show you exactly the areas that that need to be transmuted and changed. All right, the more that you love who you are, the more that you pull in your energy and not I'm not advising you to do this from an ego standpoint. That— how do you know the difference? Ego standpoint, there's gonna be this subconscious— could be loud— um, inner dialogue that wants you to do this or pull your energy back to trigger them, or no, anything where It's that lower toxic habitual energy that leads to you feeling like crap, you feeling unworthy, all of that. That's altered ego, 100%, because that's all it knows. It can never come from love. But if you're— how you feel inside in that inner dialogue is, no, you know what, I need to heal me. I need to spend some time with me, take a look at me. Why am I reacting to this? Why am I being triggered? Why is this hurting? And then go in, look at that inner dialogue, and talk to yourselves. Your cells have your answers. The answers that you're looking for outside of you It's within you, literally in your cells. Every thought and feeling that you have about yourself or another person is written on your cells, and every cell has two antennas, one that sends out, one that receives. Cells regenerate. They have memory. You're the one who's been programming them. So if your inner dialogue has been anything less than love, compassion, and understanding towards yourself, you're feeding alter ego. And that's when you get in this cycle and, you know, the whole world is crashing down, cuz that's what it feels like. All right, looking at the World in reverse, Death, Eight of Wands reversed, the Tower. Knight of Pentacles reversed and Hangman reversed. This is a cycle, not just any cycle. This is a lifetime cycle. That you're trying to close out. You're trying to transmute this. Um, I feel like one energy in this connection is very much open and accepting of what it is. Like, you know what this is, and you're not giving up. You're going within. You know, Death is about rebirth. If you look at this card, you see all these butterflies coming up. This is transmuting the pain, learning the lessons, saying, you know what, I've learned this, I'm not going to go back. You want to get out of this cycle, uh, and again, guys, this is a general reading. Take the energy and flip it or apply it how you need to. I could be talking about you, I could be talking about your connection, but somebody here is— one party has felt this pain. It feels like carried this burden for a while, um, This connection has really driven you back to yourself. It's making you analyze everything— how you even feel about love, friendships, romance, what do you want, all of that. Not only for yourself, but how you've been in other relationships and how you want it to be moving forward. The other energy is in resistance mode. Now, the resistance mode for this is, um, there's no communication going on, there's no forward movement. You could— you or the other person is in your head about it. Doubt and fear starts creeping up. You're feeling like, did I imagine this whole thing? Am I really— have I really lost my mind? Um, because you can feel this other person and you can feel their energy and their thoughts. They can feel yours. Um, so the one who's taken their energy away, you keep your focus on what you're doing— healing, understanding, bossing up. Um, remember to do it from a place of love when altered ego wants to gets you into blaming and judging, anger, hurt, and frustration. That's when you gotta go, wait, wait, wait. Um, because one person is really going through a tower moment after tower moment after tower moment. Knight of Pentacles. Not going anywhere, no communication. But this, okay, feels like divine feminine, you need to, um, discipline your mind, stay out of the thoughts that because you've pulled your energy back, they're not reaching out, having communication or anything like that. That, um, don't allow those thoughts of I never meant anything, this was, you know, see, this was too good to be true, all of that. Just stop. Because all of this, anything that you're looking at outside of you right now, if you're looking at what this person's doing, what they're not doing, all of that. You're keeping your attention off of you, off of loving who you are and getting back to love. And it's actually holding up this connection, because when you dip down into those thoughts or what have you, this person over here is already in that. They are They're trying to figure some things out. Tell me more about the Tower. Tell me more about the Tower. And the Divine Masculine. Oops, Three of Swords in reverse. Yep. Eight of Cups reversed. This is over the Tower. And Knight of Pentacles. Exactly what I was feeling. Um, this isn't over. They're not— they haven't gone anywhere. Just like you haven't gone anywhere. You've gone within for this time. You've taken your energy back to focus on you and to being the hero in your own life, and that's what you need to be doing. This person hasn't moved on. Eight of Cups in reverse. They're not walking away. But you pulling your energy back, this does feel like it was very sudden, um, shocking. The heartbreak and pain and betrayal that you felt previous, that you tried to express to your counterpart and it fell on deaf ears. It's being felt now. It's being heard now because you, you stuck out for a while, or hung in there, stuck it out for a while. I think you just really— again, yeah, you're going after your success and your recognition, and you had finally had enough You realized, look, right now this person is committed to misunderstanding me or not hearing me. You know, on one hand, they've got a lot going on and they do need this time to get their shit together. This Tower moment, this connection, and all the other stuff going on in their life They're starting to see this. They're starting— I mean, they're— they are trying to forget the connection, trying to block it out, but they can't. Two of Cups. They can't. And so They know what this connection is. They know what they've done. They know what they need to do. They're not taking action right now. There is no communication, but there is a lot of love. Spirit, give me two cards regarding this person's energy. How are they viewing their divine counterpart at this time? Nine of Pentacles. I knew it, I knew it. Yeah, okay, they— yeah, the Magician and the Nine of Pentacles. They see you glowing, they see you changing, shining, you know. Nine of Pentacles, this is singular energy. But this is about harvest coming in, um, intentions you've planted, things you've worked hard for. You put in the work, and this is you enjoying that. They are watching you manifest happiness in your life. I do feel like they're feeling left out. Queen of Cups reversed. Yeah, um, yeah. All right, let's get twin flame cards here. They're stuck. They're literally in stuck energy right now, and it's not that they've blocked you out. It's not that they're not thinking about this. They absolutely are. They have tried to get over this, turn away from it. The more that they tried, the more they tried to run from this, the more they couldn't. So now they're looking at it. They are thinking all about this. They are having their own revelations. Look, lessons. Yep, winter. And lessons. I don't care where they are in the world. It could be summer where they're at, um, or where you're at. Doesn't matter. The energy of this connection is in its winter season, guys. The winter season is so necessary, and every connection, every relationship goes through all the seasons. But in the winter season, guys, go listen to the song The Rose from Bette Midler. That song is about awakening. It's about love, finding love within yourself as well. But what it says at the end, something about in the winter, the seed that seems, you know, dead in the winter, with the summer of the spring, that becomes a rose. So that's what this relationship is going through, a winter season. You are both learning lessons. You're learning them differently. Somebody here is trying to avoid it and cover it up or deal with it in old ways, sweep it under the rug, act like it's not here. But guys, here's the thing. Unless the rug is hermetically sealed, if there's one speck of dust that you sweep under that rug, it's gonna attract way more dust right to it. I don't care if it's under the rug or not. So the more— and this is for you if you're the one trying to sweep it under the rug not look at it, deny it, sleep on it, whatever. This Tower moment is happening right now, learning some lessons and purging. See, this is the overall energy for both of you. So that's what I'm saying, you both are doing this in your own ways. And as much as altered ego is trying to tell you 'Yes, but if we just did it together, it'd be so much better.' I, you know, that desperation, um, energy of— guys, that's codependency, and that all stems from the Matrix and those 5 human habits I talked about. All right, give me the 3— give me 3 cards on the Divine Masculine. What is the energy with the Divine masculine. Yeah, one more. Sorry, I saw Surrender. We'll see if that comes out. I'm only looking for one, and that was more than one. Okay. Yeah, just like you're getting clarity and moving on in your own way. They're stuck because they're going through this purge. They're learning some karmic lessons. They're clearing karmic debt. They are getting clarity. They're starting to understand more. You pulling your energy away is what's needed and what was needed so they can gain clarity and you can gain clarity, and not from a place of the open wounds. Knowledge, trying to understand, to better understand the connection. Yeah, because what do they want? They want it too. Yeah, guys. Actually gotta grab the Divine Feminine. Can't leave us out, right? Just this energy, guys. Um, at this time, do what you need to do with affirmations, meditations, music, dance, breathwork, whatever it is for you to stay as high vibrational as you can. Um, when you feel that energy trying to pull you down, or you're negatively focusing or obsessing on this, you're feeling your— the other person. And this person needs to go through this and vibrate higher and meet you where you're at. You cannot keep going down to meet them where they're at. Because that keeps sucking you in. This will just always go in a cycle. Yeah, aligned, connected to Source, identifying with something greater than the material world, and that's what's needed. And you are guiding this connection with your energy. Yeah, chasing. It feels as if, um, you'll be doing fine, then all of a sudden this energy will spring up and makes you want to reach out, want to chase. Keep avoiding the urge to chase. Because divine feminine, when you get into that energy and you're chasing, you're in your masculine energy. Right now it's time to be in your feminine energy and rise, because you are healing and clearing what you need to clear and heal to evolve. And as you do that, your counterpart's going to feel it and follow suit. But you cannot be involved. You can't be telling them what to do, what they should be doing. You gotta zip it. The end of a tough cycle approaches. Yeah, so I said this isn't over, it's evolving, it's changing. This connection as it was needed to come crashing down. The Tower needed to fall because you both were in toxic cycles and you need to be healing yourselves. Confidence is your key to success. Yep. Know that you know that you know that you know. Trust your intuition. Your intuition is that all-knowing, the omniscient, omnipotent, omnipresent I Am Presence. It knows everything, and it can only come from love. It knows that we are all one. Intuition will never sound like altered ego or come from judgment, guilt, condemnation, blame, or shame, doubt, or fear. Ever, ever, ever, ever. It can't. It doesn't have those qualities in it. Only the human consciousness, only your mind can do that. All right, you guys. I hope this helped. I hope it gave you some clarity. As always, I am sending you oceans and oceans of love. Don't forget to subscribe and like, and if you want a personal reading with me to look at your exact journey, all that information is in the description box below. Namaste. Bye-bye.