In this solo love‑reading video, Dr. Denae Arias (the Awakening Doctor) guides viewers through an energetic and tarot‑based exploration of relationship challenges. She frames the central issue as self‑sabotage rooted in the shadow side of the root chakra, which governs safety, security, and sexuality. Arias explains how early‑life messages and internalized beliefs create a critical inner dialogue that attracts partners who validate those negative scripts. She emphasizes that the most important relationship is the one with oneself, urging listeners to question inherited stories, replace self‑critical thoughts with love and compassion, and actively reshape their inner narrative. Using the Romeo and Juliet deck, she interprets four cards—Page of Wands reversed, Devil reversed, Ace of Wands reversed, and Three of Coins upright—to illustrate doubt, fear, blocked creative energy, and the need for collaborative effort. Arias ties these insights to a manifestation principle: thoughts generate feelings, which activate magnetism and draw corresponding experiences. She concludes with practical homework: identify a disliked aspect of self, practice loving self‑talk, and make decisive actions to break old patterns, promising that such inner work will attract more aligned relationships.
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Hey, hey, hey, beautiful heart! What's vibing? Dr. Denae Arias, the Awakening Doctor, here to do a love reading. What is going on in your love relationship, situationship, friendship, whatever it is, you and the person that is on your mind? Let's dive in and see what is going on. I'm gonna, uh pull the overall energy, and this energy is going to be related to you, um, kind of where you're at and what you're going through, what your position or energy is. And then I will be pulling, um, cards from the Romeo and Juliet deck to get the story. So let's go. All right, Spirit, all of you and none of me, show me the cards I need to see. Love, praise, and gratitude, glory and grace. All right, let me just grab one more. It's been a while since I've done, um, one of these. Of course, it's been a while, if you've noticed, um, since I've done any reading. Life has been very busy in the most amazing ways. I knew that one was gonna come out. I'm not surprised. All right, self-sabotage. Hello. Sexuality and sexual arts. So these three go hand in hand. Um, self-sabotage program definitely comes from the shadow side of life. The shadow side of life is created, um, It is created out of situations and experiences, the energy around those, and how we internalize those and take those on. This is all talking about the root chakra. So for those of you that have been going through this transition, this change, you know you're changing, you're leveling up, but there's doubt and fear going on. You have really been disciplining yourself and doing the inner work. In doing that, and at part— at times on this journey, uh, we revert back or we revisit the root chakra, safety, security, sexuality, things like that, um, and our beliefs and our ideas. Um, how we think we should be, how we think others want us to be, whatever the messages were that we got when we were younger. Um, as you start to awaken, you run face first into those, and it's a time in life where you should question everything. Question everything you've ever been told. Question everything you've believed. Search for the answers within that what is right for you. And what's right for you may not be right for somebody else, and that's absolutely okay. Why? Because you're not living somebody else's life, you're living your life. So it has to be right for you. Um, most of us have been, you know, in the Matrix learning. We learned how to survive, we learned, um, what was acceptable or not acceptable. And those of us, um, you know, if you align or resonate with myself or my work, then you've had a very intense life, an intense childhood, and you've been playing roles on the stage of life. Like Shakespeare says, you know, life is, life is a stage and we are all actors on that stage. That is so true, and especially in love relationships. Um, we start to tell ourselves stories. Doesn't mean the stories are truth. It's usually stories based on, um, projected energy, things that aren't even truth that hold us back. So if you have been really dealing with the sexuality or And guys, this, this subject is so deep and so vast. It's not just one thing. It's not about, well, you know, what gender do you like or what gender do you relate to. That's not what I'm talking about. That's a part of it, but that's not all of it. This is how you see you, because we're starting out with self-sabotage. So how many of you listening to this have an inner dialogue, or have had an inner dialogue, that is very self-critical. You don't like your body, you don't like how you look, there's things about you you don't like, and you focus on those. Your, your inner dialogue is very critical and demeaning to yourself. That's what I'm talking about. That's this energy coming up. That first and foremost, the most important relationship you will ever have is you with you. That inner dialogue needs to be filled with love, compassion, grace, acceptance. So for those of you that this part is hitting home, I challenge you to pick a part of you that you don't like or you don't accept and spend time working on that, working on accepting that, changing that inner dialogue. Why? Because when you do, you come out of self-sabotage. You start to accept all of you. And as you accept you and you give yourself love, you change what you attract. You will no longer be resonating with people who come into your life to validate the parts of you you don't like. Have you noticed in different relationships people are showing up and it's validating that crappy inner dialogue, and then you're sitting there going, well, it has to be true because this is what's happening? No. What you think about, you bring about. So the universe doesn't decipher. It doesn't say, oh, they don't want this, this, and this, so let me give them the opposite. It's not how it works, guys. What you think about, you bring about. You start with a thought, you keep thinking that thought, a feeling will come up and match that. The feelings are what activates magnetism. It's what activates manifestation. So if you have a crappy self-sabotaging inner dialogue going on, you are going get experiences and people who are going to reflect that back to you because it has to validate what you're thinking and feeling. So it's really true, what you think about, you bring about. Where your thoughts go, your energy flows. So if you don't like where your thoughts are you don't like what experiences you are, it's really up to you to change that. So let's look at this. Very interesting. We're starting out with the Page of Wands in reverse. We have the Devil in reverse. We have that Ace of Wands in reverse. And we have the Three of Coins upright. So you have been going through a time— it really feels like, uh, You're not even sure what you want. Um, there's a lot of doubt and fear here. There's somebody in particular that you want, or that you want a relationship with. But you also don't like how this feels at times. There's that confusion, doubt, and fear. Has to do with how you're seeing yourself. Whoever has spoken things over you, um, all of the things that you've heard that, you know, in past relationships you weren't good enough, or you're too much, or you didn't do this. All of that, somebody here listening is rehashing that subconsciously. It doesn't have to be your truth anymore. That's the story. You get to decide, is it still valid? Is this still my belief? Is this still the story I want? And if it's not, then it is up to you to close that chapter. As you really start to accept yourself, you will be calling in new, more aligned people, situations that support your truth. If you're having a problem or an issue trying to decide to stay or go, or to make a different decision— not making a decision is a decision. The stalemate energy, kind of just waiting for change to happen— you're being prompted to go out and make that change. And guys, it really does start with you. It starts with your thoughts. There is somebody in your life that is helping you bring this energy out. For those of you who have been sitting in this energy— why me? Why does this always happen? Why am I not chosen? Or why am I always hurting? This is chat. This is here. This message is here for you to challenge your perception and your belief, because whoever this person or people are that have you in this energy or this old past energy coming up, it really is for your favor, in your favor, for you to look at it and say, hey, do I really still align with the story? Do I really believe this? And if your answer is no, then this is your prompt to change that belief. Start doing different things, speaking differently to you. This self-sabotage, um, really is the different shadows that are within. Speaking. Shadows are nothing more than perceptions and beliefs that we have taken on and have allowed to be an actor on our stage. Start accepting you, all of you. What you perceive as flaws Start speaking love over them, grace, compassion. Make that your choice. Make that your homework for this week, to choose you, to let go of the old story. Why? Because you've had years and years and years in that old story. You know how that story ends up. To get out of that story, you've got to face it, feel it, move through it, and make a different choice. If you keep making the exact same choice and then expecting a different result, guess what? You're stuck and it's not going to happen. You could gaslight yourself all day, every day, you will still just be on repeat like a laundry cycle. Rinse, repeat, rinse, repeat. To get out of that. You know, it's not sit in your house, do meditations, affirmations, and you know the sky is gonna rain down different opportunities. You have to make the first move. You have to do the work. The work is the inner work, disciplining your thoughts and your feelings. Remember, you Your relationship with you is the most important relationship you'll ever have, and it sets the stage for all of these other relationships. You love you radically, you accept you radically, your life is radically going to change. So for those of you sitting there, um, well, this person this, this person that, if only this person blah blah blah blah blah, You really are leading this, and if you're wishy-washy with yourself, up and down internally, this other person you're connected with is reflecting that right back to you. This is time for you to choose you. You should be your choice. It may feel painful right now, but as you move through this You will become in alignment with what you really want, and it will open the doorway for aligned people, places, things, contracts to come into your life. All right, beautiful, I hope you got something out of this. As always, I am sending you oceans and oceans of love from my heart to yours. Namaste. Bye-bye.
