Whose love situation is this? It's not what you think.

Hey, hey, beautiful heart, what's vibing today? All right guys, let's jump right in. How are you guys doing with this energy? Um, let me know. So, all right. For this reading, I am pulling on the energy of a connection. You guys are separated, whatever separated means to you, okay? Um, this is a general reading. This is not a one-on-one or a personal reading, so take that into consideration that we're all at different places on the timeline and moving at different paces. But just from the jump, so you know, the energy I'm pulling on is for a situation where there is separation. And you could be married to this person, you could be living with this person, um, but not really speaking. So in other words, you could be in the same house. It doesn't have to be romantic. It could be a friend, family member, whatever. Um, but the gist of it is, no matter how physically close you are in proximity to this person, or no matter the distance, if you have been feeling a separation— or, um, yeah, basically a separation, and you may have had a physical separation— this reading, um, should resonate with you. All right, so let's see. Starting off, we have number 4, which is the Patriarch, unapologetic. Um, 40, we have Mother of Earth, fertile ground. And then number 36— or excuse me, 38, Root of Earth, inspired action. Okay, so I'm reading energy. I don't pick sides. I'm neutral. I'm not invested in the outcome. I'm not invested in the story. Excuse me. I read the energy, so get in where you fit in. If I'm reading the energy and it fits, never try to force it or make it fit. Put it where it needs to be. My intention is that I am reading from the perspective of my collective. So if you're a cross-watcher, you're maybe not in my collective, but you're dealing with somebody high level and spiritual, um, and you're in a separation, you know, this could be Not this could be. Just know that I'm reading the energy from the perspective of my collective. Why am I saying that? Because whoever this reading is for, I feel you are the one who initiated the separation. Um, and again, the other person may have pulled back or what have you, but ultimately the final decision to separate, no contact, whatever it is, came from you. And I do feel you're unapologetic about it. This absolutely could be a marriage that is now in separation or going through a divorce. The person who initiated this or stood their ground on it and is moving forward with it They are unapologetic in their energy. Um, so for you collective, you are unapologetic in this decision. Um, just with these three, without even having, um, the tarot come out yet, you know, you know your life has purpose. You know your life has meaning. You know your words and your feelings create your existence. You know we're in a very fertile time right now, meaning what we're feeling the strongest and what has our attention is what we're going to be experiencing in our day-to-day life. Um, you— I do feel like you had to, um, do this. And here, over here, with— here, over here. Oh Lord. Guys, forgive me, I am on my third espresso shot. And yes, I know it's a Starbucks cup. I don't do Starbucks, just so you know. Just the cup. It's not relevant, but whatever. There it goes. Um, anyways, your growth, you becoming so uncomfortable, however that is gonna hit for you that inspired you to take action. You know you are being guided. So for those of you that initiated this separation or divorce and other people don't agree with it, or they're putting in their two cents, don't listen. Do not listen. You are taking inspired action. Now, for context, I am not here to, um, push separation or push staying together. None of that. Everybody's situation is different. Nobody should really, um, have that much power to speak over your intuition. Now, if you are in a situation that is abusive physically, emotionally, mentally, that's a different story. Okay, but, um, I'm really talking about more of two people grew apart. One's on a spiritual path more than the other. So with the story, we're starting out with the Lovers, the Two of Cups, Nine of Cups reversed. Yeah. This was a connection that at one time you felt was the real deal, and I'm not saying that it wasn't, but guys, remember, the real deal— even karmic relationships are considered the real deal because they are real. They— it's a real karmic relationship and experience. And here's the thing, embrace that because we learn the most if we choose to learn from our experiences. We learn the most through those karmic connections. We learn what we don't want, what we don't resonate with. Without those experiences, you wouldn't know. Without those experiences, you wouldn't have turned on this video. So to get yourself out of resistance, lack, or, you know, why is this happening, yada yada. Look at this with a different perspective. This connection had to happen. Okay, uh, let me keep going because this is just telling me that in the past, this relationship, there was a lot of love here on both sides. Um, you guys had plans and dreams. I don't feel they came to fruition. I do feel like you might have gotten close on a few of them and then things just fell apart. This is the Patriarch, and here we have the Emperor. These two represent the same energy. However, this Emperor is in reverse. I do not like the Emperor in reverse energy. For me, it is a very toxic energy. I know since 2020 this term is being used so much and not always accurately, um, but for this it's fitting. The Emperor in reverse for me is a narcissistic energy card. I'm not talking about narcissistic behavior from somebody who's not a narcissist. There are two different things. We all have narcissistic tendencies and traits. That's what duality is. That's what altered ego is. But what I'm talking about here is, no, this is, this is a 24/7 narcissistic type of energy. It's me, me, me, me, me, me first. What about me? A lot of gaslighting, a lot of manipulation. Truth be told, narcissist and narcissistic energy, what they show to the world or that outside appearance— oops, sorry— is nothing compared to what is going on underneath. In other words, underneath the they haven't dealt with any emotional or mental traumas, uh, and instead they— it's rooted in doubt and fear and unworthiness, so they overcompensate on the outward. So, and guys, again, if it's your reading, you didn't need all those explanations, you already know. And for those of you that are going through the separation or this divorce from this narcissist, you don't need me to tell you how intense and wild that journey is. You're, you're living it, you're experiencing it, you know. The biggest piece of advice— I'm about to just drop a golden nugget, a gold bar of treasure onto you. Um, if you're dealing with that, do not respond to the flying monkeys. The Emperor in reverse has a gaggle of flying monkeys that do their dirty work. Now, flying monkeys, it's an energy, so they could be saying things, they could be doing things, posturing themselves, whatever it is to look better, to come out on top, um, this, that, and the other. Do not buy into or attach to whatever they're saying or doing right now, especially if you're feeling like they're going to come out on top Um, you know, they're making you look bad, whatever that story is. Um, don't— yeah, don't attach to it. Get yourself into a place where you're okay being the villain in somebody else's story, because with this energy, you're never gonna win. This energy is fueled by attention. So if you're putting your attention on what's happening versus when something happens and you want to react however you want to react, you stop, you take a deep breath, and you put that into your heart. You try to stay as positive as possible. And when you put things into your heart, you're giving it over to your I Am self. In other words, the higher self that knows best. And you're saying, you know what, I trust you, you deal with this, because if I try to deal, deal with this in my human consciousness, in my ego, I'm not going to win. It is going to turn out worse for me. And that's what happens. And trust me, guys, I know, I've been there. This Empress in reverse energy is loud. It wants the attention. It wants people on its side. It's a very bullying energy. Doesn't mean it's truth. Doesn't mean it's gonna win. Um, so in other words, this whole thing right now isn't about engaging with this person. You're better off not. And for those of you going through a divorce, um, make sure you're going through your attorney in dealing with this person. This person will probably try to get you engaged in some sort of conversation without the attorney. Don't buy into it, guys. Just don't, okay? Um, Eight of Swords. Yeah, for those of you that are in your head about this— did I do the right thing, did I not? You know, maybe this, um, Emperor over here is coming in acting changed. Be wary of that. Um, and I'm not saying they can't change. What I'm saying is if this person is showing up and it appears like they've changed Don't jump right back in. Don't take it at face value. Tap into your patience. Can this person hold this new way of being, this new energy, for 6 months? I mean, start with 1 month, then go to 3 months, but give yourself a timeline of 6 months. Is this person showing up in a different way? Are they consistent? Do their words match their actions? Are they respectful? Are they owning their piece of this puzzle? Because each one of you has to own your, um, place in this. Actually, that came out that way. Um, are they doing that or are they still projecting energy? Don't pass over the red flags, okay? Because if you do, this is where you're going to end up again. For those of you that are already here and all up in your head about this, be careful of that because you are in this energy of fertile ground. What you're feeling and thinking, putting your attention on, is going to manifest. Best. Remember, the universe doesn't care if it's, um, you know, positive or negative, meaning the universe is going to give back to you what you put out. It's not going to decipher, oh, they don't want this, let me give them this. That is not how universal law works. Universal law is very clear-cut. Remember how I was saying don't buy into the red flags? This person has been exposed. You already know their strategy. You know how they work. You, you know them. What has changed here is you, and you need to get to know you outside of this connection, outside of this person's energy. I feel this is where that imbalance comes, but remember, you are the Magician. You're the one with the tools. You're the one with more knowledge. And more growth. Like I said, this is very fertile ground. Be very cautious of what you're thinking and feeling because it's your feelings that are going to magnetize things towards you. Um, Whatever blame, guilt, shame you're feeling or has been projected towards you, release it. That's what's keeping you bound. Rest. Absolutely rest from analyzing all of this. For those of you debating on going back or not, again, I'm not here to tell you what to do. Never let anybody tell you what to do. That's giving away your power. You've done that long enough. This is not the time to give away your power. By all means, find a trusted source or a counselor or guide and have them look into the situation. But whatever they say doesn't mean that's your right answer. Only you can figure that out, what your right answer is. But if you're in this mode where you're looking back on the good times of the connection, how in sync you guys were, the deep love, and overlooking this energy and the red flags. That's letting you know, hey, you're in fantasy land right now, you're in denial, and you're coming from fear, um, and That's where you need to pull back, because right now, until you're coming from a more balanced place without doubt and fear, it's not time to make a decision. And what I mean by that is to go back or not. Right now, I feel if you were to go back and give in to this energy, what have you, um, it wouldn't be long before the same old issues came back. I do feel they would come back stronger because you're choosing to work on yourself. Things you let slide before, you're no longer letting those things slide. So keep moving forward, keep looking at yourself. And where you need to heal and release. All right, let me just get one card to end this. Um, yes, absolutely. For those of you who just energetically asked, I heard it: does this person still care? Did they ever care? Yes, they did. But, and here's the but, especially if the whole narcissist thing for you rings true, they can only love you as deeply as they love themselves or have met themselves. Again, don't be fooled by narcissistic energy. Narcissists come off very confident, very sure of themselves. Guys, it's a mask. It's It's a facade. It's not real, okay? True confidence in oneself is humble. It doesn't energetically hurt anybody. So yes, what you experienced with this person and the feelings, yes, there was deep love there. But remember, this person hasn't loved themselves deep enough to continue a healthy, loving relationship with you. Okay, so yes, feelings were true. Yes, they love you. But right now, they cannot be what you need them to be because they have to give that to themselves first, meet themselves at that level first before they give it to you or anybody else. So for those of you that are like, but they're already with somebody, this, that, and the other, get your attention off of that. Do not allow that inner dialogue to make you feel less than or unworthy or any of that. Because here's the thing, that other person isn't better than you. Stop that shitty thinking, that stinking thinking. It's a mask, that relationship, whoever they're connected with. Remember, this person hasn't changed. They could keep up a facade for only so long. And this is going to repeat in every relationship until they deal with themselves. You don't really want to step back into that cesspool, not right now. But ultimately, it's your choice and your decision. Number 30, Reinventing Heart. Get to know yourself anew. What the heck have I just been saying? Yep, this is about You are unapologetic. You are manifesting, and you have taken inspired action. You need this time to get to know you. What do you want? How do you want to experience life outside and away from this energy? Release the fear, denial, and the doubt, and rest, rest, rest. All right, beautiful heart. I hope that helped. As always, I am sending you oceans and oceans of love from my heart to yours. Aloha, aloha, aloha.