Dennis Prager gives married couples an assignment: write down two or three things you want from your spouse, guess what they'd write, then swap lists. He argues writing works better than talking, especially for men who struggle to say what they need out loud.
Chapters
I want you to do the following. Whatever the state of your marriage, from really troubled to really terrific, I want you to make a list of 2 or 3 things you most want from your spouse. Next, I want you to also list what you think your spouse will write, and then I want you to give it to your spouse and And what happens after that happens after that. I am a big believer in writing. I don't think that most people, especially men, can look their wife in, in the eyes and say, these are the 1, 2, or 3 things I most want from you. Maybe a lot of wives can do that, uh, with regard to their husbands, but I don't think it's true in the other direction. So here is my question: what would you write And what do you think your spouse would write? For the full episode of The Dennis Prager Show, go to pragertopia.com, sign up, and become a full member.