Dheenaz shares a story of a six-year-old denied food and shouted at for her weight, developing low self-esteem and crying daily. She tells parents shaming doesn't work and urges them to stop the abuse. Compassionate guidance and gradual weight loss helped this child improve.
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Have you felt that as a child you did not enjoy anything because you are overweight? And people, your family members especially, maybe your parents even, abused you and told you that you were a fat kid? And they did not treat you well. Hi guys, my name is Dheenaz and I'm speaking to you from my beautiful home office here in Hyderabad. There have been a lot of cases and a lot of stories that I have heard about children being abused because they are overweight. I used to have a client, she was only 6 years old and she was very overweight. Her parents, her mother used to shout at her every day And there were times when the mother never gave her food. And that's absolutely not acceptable. So she grew up thinking that she is bad, she is ugly. She used to cry by herself every day because she was too small to talk about this to anyone. And no child needs to go through this. And no parent has the right to treat their children the way they are treating them sometimes. And so this little girl grew up and then realized what was going on. And just because she wanted to stop, she just wanted to stop her mother from shouting at her all the time, every time. One day she decided to make a change in her life. She joined our community, she came in my proximity. Initially, I had to counsel her tremendously and tell her it's okay. I mothered her and I helped her out. And then step by step, I made her lose weight. But there are many children out there who don't know what to do. And I just find it very unfair that sometimes parents are shouting at the children and not giving them the right tools and the strategies to help them to get those results. And especially as I do this video during the festive season, during Christmas season, my heart goes out to all the children who are feeling very lonely that they cannot eat the treats because they are overweight. So for all this, video has been made especially for all my little ones out there. And if you feel that you wanna go and eat something during this festive season, go there and do it. Because in your growing years, no one around you has the right to abuse you. Well, if you're overweight, we need to find a way of making you lose that weight. And for all the parents who are viewing this video, I want you all to know only one thing, that if you want your child to lose weight, I want you to take off your clothes and look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, do I have the right to shout at my child? If you have the right to shout at your child, Then there is a way to empower a child rather than shouting at your kid. And if you look at yourself without your clothes— yes, I'm being brutally honest with you— if you have— if you feel that you do not have the right because you do not have the body that you want your young child to have, then it's time for you to stop this video right now. And give it a bit of a thought that if you want something out of your children, you've got to be a role model. So as we're coming close, close to the end of the year, I want each and every one of you, parent or child, first and foremost, address this issue properly. Understand what are the emotional issues that your child is going through. If your child is overweight, there is something that is bothering that child, and that's why that child is eating so much. So for all you young ones who are watching this video today, if you feel that you cannot talk to anyone, I want you to reach out to me. The email will, will be— the link to my email ID will be put in the video in the description below. I want you to reach out to me personally, and I want to help you reprogram and rewire your brain rather than getting shouted at all the time. And for all you parents out there, I want all of you to be role models before you decide to shout at your young ones. So this festive season, during this Christmas season, I want each and every one of you to be happy. So here's from my home to your home, wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year. All I want you to do is stay happy, stay fit, stay tuned. If you want to come and be part of our proximity of our program, click on the link below and check it out for just 5 days, and I guarantee you that in just 5 days you will fall in love with me and I will fall in love with you to a point where I inspire you to take this journey forward and take this journey up for the rest of your lives. Thank you so much. If you like this video, subscribe to my channel, share the video, and like the video, and inspire other people. Because my goal of making videos like this is to bring out everything out there, put it out there and let you know, give you the informed choices so that you make the right decision when it comes to your health and your fitness. Click on the link below and I'll see you in my 5-day WhatsApp class. Thank you and bye-bye. [MUSIC] [MUSIC]
