A short YouTube monologue by Dr. Don Wood arguing that anxiety medications help manage symptoms but do not eliminate the underlying anxiety. He explains anxiety as learned from prior hurtful experiences that create a fear of the future, uses a romantic-relationship example, and recommends combining medication (to calm the brain) with active retraining of thought patterns (therapy or deliberate practice) while medicated.
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Anxiety medication is designed to help you manage your anxiety. It's not designed to eliminate it. A lot of people aren't aware of what anxiety is, but anxiety is really coming from experiences that you've had in your lifetime that have created a fear of the future. If you have a lot of experience in the past with things that have been hurtful, your mind is trying to protect you. So let me give you an example. You're going to get into a new relationship, and now the anxiety is just going through the roof. Why is that happening? Because of a previous experience where you got into a relationship but you got hurt. So anxieties bringing to your attention something that could happen. However, that anxiety is going to affect the way you live your life. If you're always worried about something that could happen that hasn't happened, the current solutions to anxiety is to go into therapy, or the other solution is to go on medications for anxiety. The medications are designed to try to calm your brain down for a short period of time. I think that's not a bad idea if that's the best way to get you to calm down. But while you're calmed down and on the medication is the time to train your brain and to reset and reboot the system. People will say to me, oh, I sabotage myself. And I say, well, it's impossible. The brain's not capable of sabotage. So if you've got a book of experiences that have all been very negative for you, and that's the resource that your mind uses when it thinks about something moving forward, can you see why anxiety would show up? There's nothing wrong with you and nothing wrong with your mind because you have anxiety.