Four steps to make someone like you in 30 seconds: give full attention, maintain eye contact to trigger mirror neurons, ask personal questions, and deliver a sincere compliment. Each taps into how people naturally respond to being seen and heard.
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This is by far the most easiest way to make anyone instantly like you. Start by giving them your full attention. Don't just listen to reply back, but to actually understand what they're talking about. It makes them feel important. Then maintain eye contact. It works because our brains have special cells that copy what other people do. So when you look at someone, it makes you both feel connected. Next, ask questions about them. It works because everyone's favorite topic is themselves. It actually feels as good as eating chocolate or getting a hug, and they think you made them feel that way. And lastly, give a genuine compliment within 30 seconds. You're telling them, "I see something good in you," which makes them want to see something good in you. Save this video and share it with someone who would want to know this.