Doug NollI'm called in when human dynamics are getting in the way of strategic leadership execution.

Mastering Emotionality #shortsfeed

23 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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Doug Noll explains how recognizing others as emotional beings reduces frustration and teaches you to regulate your own emotions in difficult moments.

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making this point is it's the emotionality that we want to master. We want to master— yes, looking at other people as emotional beings. And when you do that, you won't get so frustrated and upset at how stupid they are because you'll recognize they're just being emotional. And I can live with that. I know what to do with that. And the second thing, the second thing you learn is how to regulate your own being so that you're emotionally appropriate, even, even under trying circumstances. And that's, that's the other, that's the other thing that comes from this.

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