Your brain can only focus on one thing at a time. Switching between task mode and social mode takes minutes, so multitasking is really just switching back and forth, which creates frustration. The speaker calls it mental laziness: lacking the discipline to stay on one task.
There's no such thing as multitasking. Proven over and over again, our brains can only do one thing at a time.
Yeah.
Then it gets difficult because we have a task-focused system in the default mode, which is our social system. And so that means that when we're task-focused and we're focusing on a task, we can't be social. So you've had the experience where you've been really focused on something and maybe one of your kids or grandkids comes up to you and says, pay attention to me, and you kind of get annoyed there for a second, right? Right?
Yeah. Yep.
Because you're in task-focused mode and you have to stop being in task-focused mode and shift to social mode to be able to connect with people. And, and the two modes are antagonistic to each other. It's either on or it's off either way. And getting back into that previous mode is, it takes a couple of minutes. And so, so for people to think that they can multitask is just It's just an excuse. I, I see it as mental laziness. They're not going to learn how to be disciplined and fight one thing at a time until it's completed, because again, they get bored really easily. They need to be distracted. They need to be entertained because they have— they don't have the, the cognitive discipline to stick with the task.