Anne Truong MDMen's Sexual Health Doctor

The reason she says "no chemistry." This is so boring. #datingadvice #onlinedating

5 Feb 2026 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, Anne Truong MD argues that many men approach both online and offline dating with a tactical, interview‑style mindset, firing a series of factual questions at women. This transactional approach turns dates into a Q&A session, which she says kills the feeling of chemistry and makes the interaction feel boring. She highlights that women often describe such dates as lacking chemistry because the men are focused on tactics rather than creating a playful, feeling‑driven connection.

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Oh, it's really, really interesting because a lot of guys, because they get in their heads, they worry more about the tactics than the actual feeling of the interaction. And that goes for both online and offline. So instead of just firing questions at a woman, that's where I see, like, the Q and A and the interview happen. And, like, when they're on dates, that's where things die. And then women will come back and say, I didn't feel the chemistry. You didn't play. It was a transaction. It was just like, oh, so how many kids do you have? How long have you lived here for? Yeah, you've been to. Oh, my God, that's so boring. So boring.